Does your partner get jealous of your dildos?

Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Does your partner ever get jelous over your dildos? Either non realistic or realistic?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
yes
no
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36  (92%)
sometimes
captainsgirl , Kirill1171 , Genderfree
3  (8%)
other
Total votes: 39
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02/14/2013
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Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does your partner ever get jelous over your dildos? Either non realistic or realistic?
if they realistic is bigger than he he does a little but nothing major.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
He encourages me to find bigger and better dildos and then urges me to use them as much as I could possibly want.
02/14/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by Ansley
He encourages me to find bigger and better dildos and then urges me to use them as much as I could possibly want.
i hope we get there
02/14/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
i hope we get there
How long have you two been together? And how long have you been playing with toys together?
02/14/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
How long have you two been together? And how long have you been playing with toys together?
we have been together for 13 years. we just really started using toys about a year ago, but we just started using realistic within the month.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by captainsgirl
we have been together for 13 years. we just really started using toys about a year ago, but we just started using realistic within the month.
We've been together a little longer than that and we've been using toys in some way since the beginning. It takes a lot of talking and negotiating to get to certain points, I think. It did for us. At first it was I who was like "uh, wait...you're not jealous; well just why the hell not?!". '

Cause it's a piece of rubber/plastic/silicon e. There's nothing to be jealous of, this is of course if you aren't favoring your toys over his penis.

I think it's pretty safe to assume that is not the case. I know even though I have more realistic cocks than I can carry in my arms, I still prefer him over all of them.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Stormy has pretty much said it all. If I have anything to add it's that bringing new and larger dildos to bed was my idea - she was afraid of getting stretched out. But it was clear that the larger toys helped reach very powerful orgasms.

This comes in handy as time slowly takes a toll on my sexual abilities. It's actually a relief for me that I can give her several orgasms - then we can transfer the focus to me - no performance anxiety.

It's not unusual for her to orgasm again while having intercourse with me - but if it doesn't happen - things are still fine because she's had several already.

Help him understand that it helps him - and you - it really is a win-win.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Hell no.
02/14/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
not at all.
02/14/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Never!
02/14/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I don't think I could date someone who was threatened by a dildo.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Fun2 Fun2
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does your partner ever get jelous over your dildos? Either non realistic or realistic?
I like her to be happy
02/14/2013
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
never
02/14/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
nope he uses them on me a lot
02/14/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
sometimes
02/14/2013
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I honestly think someone may have some issues if they're jealous of a sex toy.
02/14/2013
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
No, that's absurd to get jealous of a toy.
02/14/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
my husband does not have issues, and i buy no means think its absurd. i feel its ok and natural. we just started using toys not that long ago and just started with realistic a few weeks ago.
02/14/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
No, not at all. He regularly encourages me to buy more toys.
02/14/2013
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
No, he doesn't.
02/15/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
No, he doesn't mind me using them.
02/15/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I have had partners get jealous now I have a man in my life who encourages me to get whatever I want. When I go see him he asks me to bring toys with me so he can use them on me while he is taking a "break" and I want to keep going. I love that he doesn't get jealous he knows he can't be replaced by a toy,
02/15/2013
Contributor: Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
no.
02/15/2013
Contributor: Fun2 Fun2
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does your partner ever get jelous over your dildos? Either non realistic or realistic?
I like her to use them.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
No. I wouldn't date someone who was so insecure that they would become jealous of an inanimate object.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I answered sometimes, because sometimes it's fun to masturbate in front of my girl and watch her watch me and sometimes I feel like she gets a little jealous, not in a "why you do that" sort of way but in a "damn I want to be inside you" sort of way. Freaking hot.
02/16/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does your partner ever get jelous over your dildos? Either non realistic or realistic?
He never does.
02/18/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does your partner ever get jelous over your dildos? Either non realistic or realistic?
Nope, he's not.
02/20/2013
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
no but i also dont but intimidating big dildos he knows that hes already too much for me as it is
02/20/2013