we have been together for 13 years. we just really started using toys about a year ago, but we just started using realistic within the month.
We've been together a little longer than that and we've been using toys in some way since the beginning. It takes a lot of talking and negotiating to get to certain points, I think. It did for us. At first it was I who was like "uh, wait...you're not jealous; well just why the hell not?!". '
Cause it's a piece of rubber/plastic/silicon e. There's nothing to be jealous of, this is of course if you aren't favoring your toys over his penis.
I think it's pretty safe to assume that is not the case. I know even though I have more realistic cocks than I can carry in my arms, I still prefer him over all of them.
Stormy has pretty much said it all. If I have anything to add it's that bringing new and larger dildos to bed was my idea - she was afraid of getting stretched out. But it was clear that the larger toys helped reach very powerful orgasms.
This comes in handy as time slowly takes a toll on my sexual abilities. It's actually a relief for me that I can give her several orgasms - then we can transfer the focus to me - no performance anxiety.
It's not unusual for her to orgasm again while having intercourse with me - but if it doesn't happen - things are still fine because she's had several already.
Help him understand that it helps him - and you - it really is a win-win.
I have had partners get jealous now I have a man in my life who encourages me to get whatever I want. When I go see him he asks me to bring toys with me so he can use them on me while he is taking a "break" and I want to keep going. I love that he doesn't get jealous he knows he can't be replaced by a toy,
I answered sometimes, because sometimes it's fun to masturbate in front of my girl and watch her watch me and sometimes I feel like she gets a little jealous, not in a "why you do that" sort of way but in a "damn I want to be inside you" sort of way. Freaking hot.