Please help! Need recommendation for strap-on

Bucketfisher Bucketfisher
My wife is 5'1" 110 lbs size 4. Our girlfriend is 5'6" 140 lbs size 8. We are looking for advice on a strap-on they can use on each other. My wife thinks she wants her harness to vibrate when she is screwing our girlfriend. The girlfriend is not sure if she wants a vibrating harness or not. We have never tried this before and would like to ensure a good time as soon as possible rather than trying a bunch of stuff that will not be any fun. A quality experience will be the priority, cost will be considered second. Do we need a different one for each lady?? We were thinking so, because my wife is so little. We appreciate any advice including specific brands or models that have a proven track record. Are there any videos that help us have a better experience?? A "how to" or " strap-ons for dummies"? Thanks!
11/01/2010
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Darling Jen Darling Jen
I think you can find a harness that will fit a wide range of dildos that will satisfy both of them. The trick is finding the right dildo for each of them as you can find some that have holes for vibrating bullets and some that don't. First ask them whether they want a G-string harness or a jock-strap style harness. I honestly think choosing that item is the hardest part since they have to share it despite differing tastes. But finding dildos to please each of them is easy as pie.

Just start reading some reviews and see what they think. Good luck!
11/01/2010
Bucketfisher Bucketfisher
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I think you can find a harness that will fit a wide range of dildos that will satisfy both of them. The trick is finding the right dildo for each of them as you can find some that have holes for vibrating bullets and some that don't. First ask ... More
Darling Jen. Thanks. They do not have to share. They can have their own, but we do not know if that is necessary. Jock or G-string? Why would someone choose one or the other? Have you ever done this?? What do you like. Why?? Thanks again.
11/01/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
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Originally posted by Bucketfisher
Darling Jen. Thanks. They do not have to share. They can have their own, but we do not know if that is necessary. Jock or G-string? Why would someone choose one or the other? Have you ever done this?? What do you like. Why?? Thanks again.
I'm not exactly an expert on harnesses myself, but if I were in the market, I'd start with the one I've heard the most people mention in a positive manner, which is the Jaguar: link

Reading all the reviews on that one will probably help you figure out what to look for in a harness. Good luck, and have fun!
11/01/2010
ScottA ScottA
I find Jock to be a bit more stable side-to-side. Good ones: Aslan Leather models, Outlaw Leather models, SpareParts models. A number of these harnesses can have a dildo pointing "inside" as well for stimulation.

Sportsheets makes decent value harnesses.
11/02/2010
RosesThorns RosesThorns
I use a Feeldoe Violet with the Bare as you Dare harness... works well for me.
11/03/2010
Kayla Kayla
A Spareparts Joque is my most-recommended harness. Would highly recommend it. Both of your partners should fit into a size A. And it gets tossed into the wash.

I have an article I wrote about choosing your strap-on including differences between jock and g-string types:
link

(Admin feel free to delete if it's rude to link to another site's blog. I'd normally message it, but the OP lacks an account.)

I'd also recommend Tristan Taormino's Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men DVD. It talks about using a strap-on, giving anal sex to men, as well as videos about purchasing, how to properly wear, and using strap-ons. It was very educational and has some sex scenes to get you in the mood too. (I know it's for use between the two women, but there's good info on it - especially if you ever want to delve into anal sex - even with each other.)
11/03/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Kayla
A Spareparts Joque is my most-recommended harness. Would highly recommend it. Both of your partners should fit into a size A. And it gets tossed into the wash.

I have an article I wrote about choosing your strap-on including differences ... More
Tristan's "guide to anal pleasure for women" book is also very good if you prefer to not have the "porn" element.
11/03/2010
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