after reading many many reviews on strapless strap-ons, i think i'm going to purchase the share. what i'm wondering now are some things about which harnesses would be appropriate for use with this?
it seems as though since most harness openings sit at the front of the pelvis, they wouldn't really be useful/comfortable with a strapless strap-on that actually comes out of the vaginal opening...? how does this work well? any thoughts or comments on this? i've been looking for some pictures or something with the share actually in a harness and/or strapped onto a person's body, but can't seem to find any. imagine that.
and here are my main concerns re: harness selection. first off, i prefer something sleek and sexy. i am petite and so is my girlfriend. so basically i want something that is as discreet, yet also allows for some seriously long, hard marathon sessions too.
considering the peek-a-boo clear harness by sportsheets (on a pretty serious budget, and it's cheaper), but knowing that you get what you pay for, i'm also considering the aslan commando and the aslan jaguar harnesses. any reviews on if these will work with the share, and/or any experiences with them at all? are they comfortable? will i be able to (or not be able to) fuck my girlfriend for hours with either or both of them? how do they compare to each other? is one much more sturdy than the other? and how does the vegan option hold up, versus the real leather?
sorry for the million questions... i've used regular strap-ons in the past, but this is my first endeavor into buying harnesses and dildo's separately, and i could use some advice for sure.
any and all advice welcome, and thank you!