When shopping for dildos, do you have a strong preference one way or another if your dildo has a balls base?

Happy Camper Happy Camper
I'm learning that balls are a crucial part of the sex experience for me. A dildo can look and feel however realistic it wants but I am not interested in it unless it has a pair of balls I can smack myself with. In shopping for an upgrade, I'm having trouble finding a realistic dildo in the size I want, with the texture I want, and in the price range I want. But I'm just curious. Is anyone else as particular as I am about this? One way or the other? I'd be curious to hear opinions from people with the opposite preference.
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Balls
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22  (21%)
No Balls
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37  (35%)
Both, depending on the occasion.
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48  (45%)
Total votes: 107
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Without the balls - the dildo can easily rotate inside putting pressure in the wrong places. Since I'm doing this with my wife - I need a frame of reference.
02/09/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I like without.
02/09/2011
toxie m toxie m
It really depends on the toy, I'm not quite sure what my exact criteria is, to be honest. I do really enjoy some that have balls, but other times the deciding factor in choosing is that it's balls-free. I'm gonna say it's probably more about the overall look of the toy, and I really like having both types in my collection
02/09/2011
ScottA ScottA
I generally look first at other things, but balls have their advantages. They provide a good handle and can be used for leverage, and they provide a "this side up" indicator (or more appropriately a "which way is this pointing" indicator). They can get in the way and they definitely make a toy much more realistic (can go either way with that).
02/09/2011
Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
The rest of the dildo is more important to me, but I'm fine with both.
02/09/2011
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I don't like the look of balls on a dildo. I just don't really like toys which are realistic. I can deal with a semi-realistic looking dildo, if it's a strange color or something so it doesn't look exactly like a penis. The balls just make it look too "real" to me though.
02/10/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Mostly no balls, but I have both types.
02/10/2011
closed account closed account
If I am going for the realistic look, balls are a must. I've also noticed that in general I have started to find this part of a man's anatomy very much a turn on.
02/10/2011
Bunnycups Bunnycups
Balls would be a total turn off for me. The more realistic it is the more it creeps me out.
02/10/2011
Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by Happy Camper
I'm learning that balls are a crucial part of the sex experience for me. A dildo can look and feel however realistic it wants but I am not interested in it unless it has a pair of balls I can smack myself with. In shopping for an upgrade, ... More
If it has balls, that makes it anally safe.
02/10/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
either way is great
02/10/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I don't care much for balls, but I do like a good base. If the dildo has a nice shape/curve, balls would not deter me from buying it though.
02/10/2011
VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
I have both with and without balls, but I have to say I appreciate some nice balls on my toys if I have a choice.
02/10/2011
Herp Herp
No balls for me, thanks.
02/10/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I like balls cause they give me a good base to grip on to.
If a realistic dildo doesn't have balls - it looks weird to me and I usually won't buy it.
02/11/2011
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
I like balls cause they give me a good base to grip on to.
If a realistic dildo doesn't have balls - it looks weird to me and I usually won't buy it.
When I'm looking at a dildo for harness use it doesn't matter. She's a girl, so she doesn't "need" balls, and properly put on almost anything looks good. If she wants balls she can go ahead, though.

I might not have said that when I was getting started, though. Nonrealistic definitely was king back then.
02/12/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I don't care for the balls, what I'm really looking for is a clitoral stimulator
02/12/2011
Envy Envy
I usually prefer no balls since that means the base could have a suction cup base. Not always the case but I look out for it.
02/12/2011
leatherlover leatherlover
My wife really likes to have the balls slapping her as well, so that is pretty much a requirement.
02/12/2011
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Happy Camper
I'm learning that balls are a crucial part of the sex experience for me. A dildo can look and feel however realistic it wants but I am not interested in it unless it has a pair of balls I can smack myself with. In shopping for an upgrade, ... More
um smack yourself with balls? you mean while your using it inside or u like to use it to spank? have u seen adam's pleasure skin cock? its $20 some i believe
02/12/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Happy Camper
I'm learning that balls are a crucial part of the sex experience for me. A dildo can look and feel however realistic it wants but I am not interested in it unless it has a pair of balls I can smack myself with. In shopping for an upgrade, ... More
I have teenage girls so I tend to pick dildos that aren't terribly realistic looking. I prefer non realistic ones but my girls asked me specifically not to get those. I try to honor their requests when they are reasonable.
02/12/2011
zeebot zeebot
I don't really have a strong preference either way, either can be nice when I'm in the mood for it.
02/12/2011
ColorSplash ColorSplash
I don't really have a preference for anything but if I really had to choose it would be balls. I like the feel of it and when you are imagining and your thoughts running wild..makes it feel more realistic.
02/14/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I prefer them without the balls. I don't really like overly realistic toys.
02/14/2011
PussyGalore PussyGalore
I like balls because they sit under the strap of a sex toy my husband built for us. What I want to know is why toy companies think veins on a real cock can be felt or add to pleasure in any way and why they INSIST on putting them on every single fucking toy made. Can I get a nice realistic cock that won't irritate me with the thirty unrealitically raised veins, please?
02/14/2011
PussyGalore PussyGalore
Quote:
Originally posted by BadassFatass
I prefer them without the balls. I don't really like overly realistic toys.
Why is that? (Just curious, I'm not loaded with some weird argument why you MUST have dildos with balls.)
02/14/2011
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I've only got one with balls right now, I don't actually like it much, but that has nothing to do with its balls and I plan to get more eventually.
02/14/2011
married with children married with children
we choose based on material it is made out of, and its shape. If we find one that we like, and it happens to have balls its a bonus.
02/14/2011
cuntofdoom cuntofdoom
I generally go for without the balls simply because it's more asesthetically pleasing to me.
02/15/2011
Total posts: 61
Unique posters: 56