Small silk as a beginner anal toy

Hot Rick

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Originally posted by Kval

Hello! I am looking for advice. I'm introducing my wife to anal, but she is a little uncomfortable and concerned about pain. Will Small silk be ok to start practicing anal, or should I go with smth smaller/bigger?

Hi Kval! I think Silk is a wonderful toy for an anal novice. I've used this toy on a couple of anal beginners...it's very good because it's small and very smooth. You should not look for something bigger, she can only move up to a larger toy once she learns to relax the muscles with a smaller one. Good luck! Reply

4 months ago

Essin' Em

You can always go smaller, with beads, etc. DON'T go bigger, especially if she's apprehensive about it! Start with a finger or two before you buy a toy. If she's not ok with that, then it is silly to waste your money.

And PLEASE remember, Lube is your friend. Use lots of it. When you think you have enough, use some more! Thicker stuff, like Maximus, is really good in these situations. Reply

4 months ago

Betty Rocket

The Tantus Ripple is a GREAT beginner toy. Flared base, gradiuated bead like structure...highly recommend Reply

1 month ago

Lonely Bostonian

Quote:

Originally posted by Essin' Em

You can always go smaller, with beads, etc. DON'T go bigger, especially if she's apprehensive about it! Start with a finger or two before you buy a toy. If she's not ok with that, then it is silly to waste your money.

And PLEASE remember, Lube is... More

I recall Seymore Butts saying once in regards to (what else) anal, "too much lube is almost enough!" Reply

2 weeks ago