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It really seems like they're hard to use period. I don't know of anyone who regularly uses them without a harness (though I'd love to hear from someone who does).
The Share works better without a harness than the Feeldoe does, but that's mainly because of the shape and finish on the toys. The Share is matte finish, therefore less slick. You need to use more lube with the Share than with the FeelDoe, but it is less likely to slide right out. Same with the shape of the bulb. The Share is shaped better to stay in place inside a woman's body. I can use the Share without a harness with no problem, tho I prefer to use a harness with it. The toy is so heavy and the neck is so narrow that it droops when not actively being used! I like the way it looks standing straight up. Oh, and sometimes, if I'm especially well lubricated myself, the Share can slip out, especially after orgasm.
Hope this was helpful!