What is your favorite accessory for a dominatrix outfit?

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What is your favorite accessory for a dominatrix outfit?

Katelyn Katelyn
I am putting together a few more parts of my outfits and I find myself needing certain accessory's.

What makes you feel in the mood to dominate? Or what are your favorite parts of a Dom outfit?

I would also be interested in men who are dominant, what do you wear to get in the mood?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Whips
7
Floggers
6
Chains
1
Paddles
4
Handcuffs
5
Leather
11
Plastic
2
Heels
8
Stockings
11
High Buns or other Hairstyles
2
Gloves
3
Lipsticks or Makeup
7
Packing (gender play dominance)
1
Corsets or other sexy tops
7
fingernails
6
Other- I would love to know what else you associate with Doms
6
Total votes: 87 (22 voters)
Poll is closed
02/14/2012
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Sir Sir
To me, I don't need a certain outfit or "accessory" to feel in my role. I simply am a Dominant, full time. It's not really dependent on what I'm wearing. However, some of my favorite things to wear on a daily basis are suits or professional wear.
02/14/2012
Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I am putting together a few more parts of my outfits and I find myself needing certain accessory's.

What makes you feel in the mood to dominate? Or what are your favorite parts of a Dom outfit?

I would also be interested in men who ...
I have a stocking fetish, I wish eden had some silk ones
02/14/2012
blixa blixa
It's a bit of a cliche by now, but I absolutely love the way crops look (and using them, but that's another story).
03/14/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
Quote:
Originally posted by blixa
It's a bit of a cliche by now, but I absolutely love the way crops look (and using them, but that's another story).
I have the heart crop and it is so adorable! They are very fun : )
04/08/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I am putting together a few more parts of my outfits and I find myself needing certain accessory's.

What makes you feel in the mood to dominate? Or what are your favorite parts of a Dom outfit?

I would also be interested in men who ...
Handcuffs!
04/09/2012
nosrslylol nosrslylol
A dominant personality, honestly. Physical accessories are cool but only do so much.
11/07/2012
jr2012 jr2012
I think good lipstick and shiny nail polish really makes an an outfit!
11/29/2012
Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Leather
11/30/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Leather...especially a nice pair of patent leather shoes (bonus points for knee high or thigh high boots with lots of shiny buckles to polish).
Other than that probably a good pair of stockings.
I think it would be difficult to really nail down an accurate description of a dominatrix though, everyone's style is different after all, and the "right" clothing, accessories, and makeup don't make the domme, their experience, love of BDSM, and natural talent make the domme. ^_^
11/30/2012
ASpiritedSlut ASpiritedSlut
I do not have to wear a certain outfit, I am a lifestyle Domme and my pet serves me while I wear anything from a gown to pajamas. However, if I want to heighten the mood, or am going to an event, I would usually have a few specifics. I usually style my hair so it is down, as it is very long, but I'm prepared to put it up when I scene, so it can't get caught in a wayward flogger or something. I like corsets and stockings, I also prefer heels. I usually do my makeup, particularly eye, with an intense tone. My go-to item to carry around is a riding crop. Most of my floggers are too bulky to carry with me, but a crop is lightweight and effective. It can also help make for an intimidating visual effect.

Overall, it is specific to you. What makes you feel Domme? Because that is where you need to focus your energy. If a particular toy or outfit empowers you, then it will come across to the submissive, and everyone else around you. So try things on, or look around online, until something speaks to you. I always know when I've found the perfect accessory, because I can't live without it!
11/30/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
Honestly, I don't think it is something that is about playing dress-up. I've played with tops that are wearing very simple, every-day clothing and had great scenes. If they don't have the right mindset, all of the fashion and toys makes no difference.
11/30/2012
Total posts: 12
Unique posters: 11