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Material and girth is what I look for.
Me, too! I have to be able to use it comfortably with no reactions to the material & I have to be able to accommodate it! Shape affects how well I can accommodate it, as well, because I can fit a wider girth if it tapers to the fullness, but not if it starts really thick, such as a very bulbous head. The length doesn't bother me, I take whatever's comfortable, so the extra just isn't used & so far, I haven't ever had a toy that's too short. I like lots of different colors, but I have noticed my vagina doesn't see color, so it's not a deal breaker for me.
I always thought I preferred softer, squishier materials, but then I tried glass & found it to be the easiest material for me, I have absolutely no reaction to it & other than having to be careful not to bruise myself, I think it's perfect. I am still interested in trying a VixSkin to see how I like it, or some other softer materials. So, for now, girth & materials are the 2 determining factors for my trying a toy.