As mentioned above, the Amethyst and Bent Graduate are basically the same thing, and many people recommend them as a first glass (G-spotting) toy. The Bent Graduate was my very first glass (and G-spot) toy... and I ended up giving it away because I thought it was too pointy and I had no idea where my G-spot was so I basically jabbed and scratched my insides with it. After finally finding my G-spot, I got the Amethyst... and like it better this time around once I know what I'm doing with it.
My point is if you know where your G-spot is and have an idea that you like pinpoint stimulation of it (which the pointy tip will give you), then go for the Bent Graduate or Amethyst (when if finally comes back in stock
). Even if you don't know where your G-spot is, one of those could help you find it... but if you don't like pointy tips then those won't be the best toy for you.
Icicles No. 8 would be a nice one as well... though if you'd prefer something with more girth and a little bit more length, there's the Sasha Grey Swell Wand
(love it!) and the Reflections Amber
(which is basically the Swell Wand but a different color and just slightly shorter) - (and both are cheaper than the Icicles No. 8).