So let's say you bought your friend a sex toy...

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So let's say you bought your friend a sex toy...

indiglo indiglo
I'd leave it in the original box and give it to her in private. Actually, what I'm more likely to do is just have it shipped to her house. (And give her a heads up that a gift I ordered her was coming.)
10/14/2011
zeb zeb
Tell her to open alone
10/14/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
as a GIFT. It had a very sexual box, not discreet at all. Would you just wrap it up, in the box it came in? Would you take it out of the box and find another (even though this may or may not make your friend think the toy was used)? What would you ...
it always depends on how open the friend is about these sorts of things. i wouldnt' purposefully gift a sex toy to a friend in front of others unless it was, say, a sex party or something.
10/25/2011
samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
as a GIFT. It had a very sexual box, not discreet at all. Would you just wrap it up, in the box it came in? Would you take it out of the box and find another (even though this may or may not make your friend think the toy was used)? What would you ...
i would leave it as is,
03/06/2012
Hibangel Hibangel
just wrap it like any present and give privately.
03/16/2012
mistressg mistressg
I've thought about doing this. I considered just having it mailed to me, wrapping it, maybe throw together a gift box of things, then mail it to her. Or wrap it and tell her to open it in private.
03/16/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
as long as u give it to her in private i think itd be fine
03/17/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
keep it in the box and make sure you give it to her in private
03/17/2012
Rahel Rahel
I don't really want it to be shared knowledged unless everyone around is also sex-positive.
03/17/2012
Kitka Kitka
I would leave it as is, just wrap it up and let her know to open it in private.
04/05/2012
dks210 dks210
Leave it wrapped (for sanitary reasons), and tell her to open it in private.
04/10/2012
roskat roskat
Either tell her to open it in private or put the original package in another discreet box (and tell her to open it in private).
04/27/2012
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
This situation is likely to happen to me in the near future. I'll be wrapping it up in the original packaging and then giving it to her in private.
04/27/2012
P3ngu1n78 P3ngu1n78
It depends what sort of party it is
05/05/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I'd put the box in a second box if it needed to be really discreet, but mostly just tell her to open it alone.
05/05/2012
Missy May Missy May
give it to her in private. unless it was like a bachorlette party with close friends.
05/05/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
yeah i would wrap it in a nice gift bag and tell her to open it in private
06/10/2012
llellsee llellsee
Wrap it well and tell her to open it privately.
05/11/2013
sweisb4100 sweisb4100
I advocate self care!
05/11/2013
spiced spiced
I find it hard to imagine myself giving someone a sex toy... but if someone were to give ME a sex toy, I'd want them to leave it in the original packaging, and to give it to me in private, so that's what I'd do if I were the giver.
05/11/2013
Castielskitten Castielskitten
I have done this. I bought my then pregnant friend a vibrator (she's 27 just for the record). She's no longer pregnant but I had taken it out of it's actual box and put it in a box for cigerrate papers to hide it, and wrapped it. I also wrote on teh back of the box to open in private because her family would have hated me for sending her a toy and they would have hated her.
So we kept it as discreet as we could. They really did think I sent her cigeratte papers X'D.
05/11/2013
edeneve edeneve
I've already done this w/ 2 friends - wrapped it well, and warned them to open it in private. they both love their toy. I've enjoyed asking them about their escapades w/ the toy & neither will share - darn. lol!
05/11/2013
SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
I think it would partially depend on the person. I have some friends who live fairly discreet lives and wouldn't want to open something naughty at a party. Other friends wouldn't mind. Some friends I wouldn't buy a toy for at allllllll
05/11/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Kind of depends on what the occasion was. I'd probably go with wrapping it if I could hand it over discretely in person, or I'd give my friend a heads up and have it shipped
05/11/2013
kitcomet kitcomet
You'd want to disguise it. I've had toys opened by my family by accident... now there's a mess...
05/27/2013
Nezzie13 Nezzie13
I'd leave it in its original packaging, but wrap it up and give it to them once we're alone. Partly so that I don't have to touch their toy, and partly so that they'll have the packaging in case it's defective, or they simply decide they'd like to see more toys from that brand.
05/27/2013
mdnght mdnght
Depends on the friend! Of course I wouldn't buy a toy for a friend unless they explicitly started that that'd be okay with them and told me what they were looking for. But I wouldn't take it out of the package, I'd just tell them to open it in private. Half the fun would be laughing at the really cheesy packaging, anyways!
05/27/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I would wrap it as is.. & have her open it in private with just me.. or if she doesn't want to open it around me.. then I'd just tell them to make sure no one is around.
06/10/2013
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