Taken from Kindred's thread- Tips about EF I wish I knew sooner
is a great tip he found out about.
"Ever wish you could send a special gift to a member of the community but they don't happen to have it on their wishlist? No problem! As long as they have a public wishlist with the gift registry activated (this is very important), you can send them anything you want from EF. Simply add any item from their wishlist into your shopping cart. This captures their information for shipping. You can then add any other item you want, even if it is not on their wishlist. Then, simply delete the original item you added from their wishlist. The remaining items will still be sent to their shipping address. Also, don't forget to add a free gift option as a bonus!"
So even if the toy you want to gift is not there you can still send it their way.