A gift certificate might be best unless you are very confident you know what she already has and what her toy preferences are. Although if you are certian she doesn't have anything and doesn't know where to start I would suggest Mimi and/or Ella. They are both popular quality silicone toys that would be a good place to start. Both have beautiful packaging that is suitible for gifts. And together they they may be as effective as a rabbit, but without the worry of trying to get a fit for someone else's anatomy. I had a hard enough time finding a rabbit to fit my own!