I love getting dressed up. Nothing makes me feel sexier and ready to play and have fun. I do it for me, AND for him, and most of the time, it doesn't end up on the floor, but just pushed aside enough in key areas when needed. It's incredibly sexy to be teased through silky or lacy fabric or be bound in something tight and leather. Sex is a like a good meal, a pleasure for ALL of the senses. With the right lighting and music, a dazzling table setting, and a chef who knows how to play with scent and color and texture, a meal can be an EXPERIENCE instead of just filling your belly. The same can be said for sex, and even more so. Why just do what it takes to get off and be done? How boring is that? Sure, we all stop at that fast food joint every now and then because we are lazy; it's fast, cheap, and filling. It can sometimes be good as well, but every now and then you want to go out to a nice place with linens on the table, nice place settings, music and atmosphere. You want to be entertained and delighted, and excited!
You may be able to tell, but a perfect night for me is a night out that I plan for weeks. Not only do I get dressed up on the outside, but I always wear something sexy underneath that no one can see. Nipple jewelry, sexy underwear, maybe even a corset. Fishnet stockings, or even my new butt plug... my man never knows what to expect. I get turned on, just by the act of getting "dressed" and I tease myself all night long with anticipation of what is to come. Pair that with a night out, a sensory journey of food and wine and music and all the while knowing your "little secrets" and maybe even leaning over the table to whisper some of them in your man's ear, so he is just as turned on as you are.
As for full on lingerie or costumes, we don't do much of that, if only because it gets expensive when you are plus sized. Not mention it's damn near impossible to find what I consider sexy even made in my size.
You may be able to tell, but a perfect night for me is a night out that I plan for weeks. Not only do I get dressed up on the outside, but I always wear something sexy underneath that no one can see. Nipple jewelry, sexy underwear, maybe even a corset. Fishnet stockings, or even my new butt plug... my man never knows what to expect. I get turned on, just by the act of getting "dressed" and I tease myself all night long with anticipation of what is to come. Pair that with a night out, a sensory journey of food and wine and music and all the while knowing your "little secrets" and maybe even leaning over the table to whisper some of them in your man's ear, so he is just as turned on as you are.
As for full on lingerie or costumes, we don't do much of that, if only because it gets expensive when you are plus sized. Not mention it's damn near impossible to find what I consider sexy even made in my size.
