My husband asked the dumbest question.

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My husband asked the dumbest question.

CS2012 CS2012
I got my first piece of lingerie from Eden this week. In total I have 2 pieces of lingerie. Both are babydolls.

I told my husband I was getting more for free from Eden. He asked "you have 2 why do you need more?" I told him I'm sorry but that was a dumb question you asked me. I said a woman can never have enough lingerie!"

Do you ladies agree with me?
10/16/2011
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Antipova Antipova
I don't think asking "why" is ever a dumb question.

If he was proclaiming that you could not get more, then that would be rude. But since he phrased his question in a way that let you give an answer ("because I like a lot of variety!" for example), it wasn't a dumb question. It's legitimate for your partner to try to understand your motivation.

Personally, I'm not that big into lingerie (or clothing at all, really) but my partner said I should get some. I asked him why---and he explained why it turns him on---so then I was able to share his enthusiasm and get some. If you include your husband in your excitement, then you'd *both* want you to have more.
10/16/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
Two is definitely not enough in my opinion. I like to have variety and wouldn't want to wear the same two outfits over and over. I have at least 30 things from Eden, not to mention all the stuff from other places. And I still have 50 things on my lingerie wishlist. I am planning on getting another dresser for it all though, so I might be reaching the point of too much lol But my boyfriend has never complained about it, and is thrilled every time I get something new.
10/16/2011
Kkay Kkay
I actually asked something similar when my best friend was starting to get back into lingerie. She explained that it made her feel sexy and that she enjoyed it, and I feel like I understand it a bit better now. It's not an urge I share and I wasn't trying to censor- I just didn't get the need for more.
10/16/2011
CS2012 CS2012
You've all made great points. Thanks for helping me see why he asked. I guess I want more lingerie is because before I felt like I was to fat to have any. I have lost 117 in the past 7 months. I went from size 3x/4x to a size Medium in 7 months. Now that I have put on lingerie and I feel sexy for the first time in my life I want to get more the clothing that makes me feel sexy.
10/16/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by CS2012
You've all made great points. Thanks for helping me see why he asked. I guess I want more lingerie is because before I felt like I was to fat to have any. I have lost 117 in the past 7 months. I went from size 3x/4x to a size Medium in 7 months. ...
Tell him that and he will probably understand why you want more than two. Congrats on the weight loss!

I have I don't even know how much lingerie and I'm always buying more. I get bored easily of clothes in general and don't like wearing the same thing more than a few times.
10/16/2011
Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
I constantly encourage my wife to buy more lingerie and often give it as a gift. Sometimes for my birthday or Father's Day I simple ask her to get some new lingerie!
10/16/2011
Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by CS2012
You've all made great points. Thanks for helping me see why he asked. I guess I want more lingerie is because before I felt like I was to fat to have any. I have lost 117 in the past 7 months. I went from size 3x/4x to a size Medium in 7 months. ...
Awesome---good for you! (Seriously, that's a huge accomplishment, and you ought to be so proud of yourself, and totally enjoy your sexy confidence.)

Now tell him too, that the lingerie is a way to celebrate your reborn body, and I'm sure he'll start to share some of your excitement!
10/16/2011
JessCee JessCee
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Originally posted by CS2012
You've all made great points. Thanks for helping me see why he asked. I guess I want more lingerie is because before I felt like I was to fat to have any. I have lost 117 in the past 7 months. I went from size 3x/4x to a size Medium in 7 months. ...
YOU GO GIRL!!!! What an inspiration! You should tell him just that, should be easy for him to understand it this way
10/16/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
lol, nope, i'm ordering lingerie all the time. i could never have enough.
10/16/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by CS2012
You've all made great points. Thanks for helping me see why he asked. I guess I want more lingerie is because before I felt like I was to fat to have any. I have lost 117 in the past 7 months. I went from size 3x/4x to a size Medium in 7 months. ...
That is a really great reason to be wanting more lingerie! Congratulations on your weight loss and your newfound confidence. And I think that if you explain that to him, he'll be very understanding of you getting more than 2 babydolls
10/17/2011
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I've been married for 32 years and never really been much into lingerie after our first couple of years of marriage.

But that was partly because my husband wasn't into it - so I figured "why bother?"

Since our "sexual revolution" a few weeks ago where we started adding toys, I realized that I needed some sexy lingerie for ME! I'm a large woman (22/24) and I so rarely felt like a woman.

Now - my husband sees my excitement when I'm in something pretty and he runs his hand along my back and shoulders so I can feel the material against me and he realizes that the feeling of the lingerie against my skin is very sensual for me - much like petting a cat and watching it arch its back and purr.

He has since asked me to just be careful and not spend more than we can afford on lingerie (and on toys).
10/17/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
Some men (and women, I'm sure) are just of that mindset of "I have a pair of shoes, they fit, why would I need another pair of shoes?" so it's hard for them to understand those of us that fall into the "Should I pack brown AND black boots for my 2 day trip?" category.
10/18/2011
Yoda Yoda
Are you saying that there isn`t anything of his that you think he has too much of?
10/18/2011
domsub1993 domsub1993
Never enough lingerie, silly man! LOL!
10/18/2011
CS2012 CS2012
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Originally posted by Yoda
Are you saying that there isn`t anything of his that you think he has too much of?
I think my husband has too little stuff. For example he has just one pair of black jeans. I keep offering to buy him another pair and he says "I all ready have a pair why do I need another pair". He hardly has any clothes since he works from home. He is perfectly happy wearing the same thing over and over. I keep offering to buy him stuff.

I even encourage him to get cock rings and fleshlights or a pocket pussy. Does he want any no he doesn't. He feels like as long as he has his laptop, internet, me and food / water he is happy.
10/18/2011
CS2012 CS2012
Thanks everyone for congratulating me on my weight loss.

UPDATE: I did explain to my husband how lingerie made me feel and he does understand now why I want more than 2 pieces.

We even picked me out a piece together for his free review this month.
10/18/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Congratulations on your weight loss that's fantastic. I can't have enough lingerie myself, but I'm addicted.
10/19/2011
indiglo indiglo
I don't think it's a dumb question either. He was genuinely puzzled, because his brain works differently from yours, and he wanted to understand yours. My man does that occasionally, starts asking questions that could seem strange, but he always says: "I just want to get inside that mind and see exactly how it works." It's really sweet actually.

Great job on your weight loss, and on explaining things to your husband! Communication works wonders!
10/19/2011
Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
Congratulations on your weight loss that's fantastic. I can't have enough lingerie myself, but I'm addicted.
I am an addict too.
10/20/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I can understand his question. It's like things that are important to guys and we can't understand it.... they often don't understand our obsessions.

My Master doesn't understand lingerie at all and has no desire to see it on me. Give him skin and he is thrilled!
10/20/2011
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