Need an outfit that doesn't scream 'DOM!' but subtley whispers it...

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Need an outfit that doesn't scream 'DOM!' but subtley whispers it...

Ryuson Ryuson
So me and my boyfriend have always had this issue that we're both fairly submissive in bed, so we both tend to 'take turns' being the dominant one. I recently was planning on buying myself a slightly submissive piece of lingerie (it comes with a collar and is very soft and feminine) and thought that it would only be even to get myself a slightly dominant piece of lingerie to thrill him, too.

My problem? I don't want anything that's like leather and spikes and vinyl, but I also don't want anything that's not going to get the 'dominant' point across. I also am not a huge fan of hosiery in the bedroom, so the chemises that have to be clipped to thigh highs probably wouldn't be good.

So guys! I'd love any suggestions you have! Thank you so so much!
06/20/2012
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aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
what about the caged heart series stuffs? sooo cute.



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you don't HAVE to use garters and thigh highs, but you can.


this is exactly what i thought of as soon as i read this.





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hope this helps!
06/20/2012
Ms. N Ms. N
Maybe a sexy costume? Teacher, lady cop, nurse?
06/20/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
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Originally posted by Ms. N
Maybe a sexy costume? Teacher, lady cop, nurse?
Hmm, costumes tend to creep him out hahahaha. Thanks for the suggestions, Alice! That last one is really neat! I also was thinking of getting one of these one, what do you guys think?

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I'm so bad at being dominant!
06/20/2012
Beck Beck
The Honeycomb bustier is really awesome. There is also a chemise.

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06/20/2012
Ms. N Ms. N
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Originally posted by Beck
The Honeycomb bustier is really awesome. There is also a chemise.

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I have the chemise, and it is awesome - very comfortable too.
06/20/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Ryuson
Hmm, costumes tend to creep him out hahahaha. Thanks for the suggestions, Alice! That last one is really neat! I also was thinking of getting one of these one, what do you guys think?

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I'm so bad at being dominant! ...
the first one seems more cutesy than dom... cutesy and sexy.

no pink in a dom outfit!

the second, i think you've got a different idea about being dominant. you won't want one with a collar, a collar is for a slave!


you'll get the hang of it.


i'm not very good at dominating either, but mostly because i'm just lazy. the dom has to do all the work!
06/20/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Beck
The Honeycomb bustier is really awesome. There is also a chemise.

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yes! the chemise may be perfect. ryuson, i want to see pics!!!!
06/20/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
the first one seems more cutesy than dom... cutesy and sexy.

no pink in a dom outfit!

the second, i think you've got a different idea about being dominant. you won't want one with a collar, a collar is for a slave! ...
I completely disagree about pink. I am totally girly and totally dominating with people. Pink is perfect for me!
06/20/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i am LOVING this... ryuson, it's so hot!!! whispers dom to me, and screams SEXY!

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this listing is just for the skirt, but there are some other new hot pieces just put up today too!






just do a search for 'wet look'
06/20/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i am LOVING this... ryuson, it's so hot!!! whispers dom to me, and screams SEXY!

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this listing is just for the skirt, but there are some other new hot pieces just put up today too!






just do ...
Oooh those are nice! I also really like the honeycomb one! You guys are too darned awesome with all of your suggestions! Do you think that this one is subtly dominant? Or do you think that it's still a bit too cute? (It's also on sale hahaha)


I'm excited! It's so cool to see what everyone thinks would work for an outfit, too!
06/21/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
So me and my boyfriend have always had this issue that we're both fairly submissive in bed, so we both tend to 'take turns' being the dominant one. I recently was planning on buying myself a slightly submissive piece of lingerie (it comes ...
You sounds just like me and my Lovie! We're both pretty submissive in bed too. Outside of bed though, I'm a tiger. Totally the opposite of submissive.

Anyways, I've been trying to sexy my look up as well. I always go for the beautiful, soft and feminine lingerie. Seriously. I don't think I own a single piece of lingerie that doesn't have ruffles or bows. For a while I have been trying to get the guts up to buy something more sex-kitten. Ok, more badass I guess. I just don't think my personality fits it, but I would love to be able to put on something sexy that gives me this attitude that says 'you better do what I say without question or this could be very bad for you.' LOL.

The one Alice posted is something I've had wishlisted for a while, but have been scared it won't flatter my body. I think it'd look fabulous on you though.


Also, after seeing the new Coquette pieces today, I've decided I'm SO going to end up buying them. Here, let me see if I can post them...

- This one is sexy and beautiful, but I think I'll be getting the others first: link

-THIS is a definite sexy, badass, MUST HAVE: link

-And this is the one I want the most. Also the one I think would really give you the look/attitude you are going for: link

-My second favorite. I think this will also be something that would fit what you're goin' for. Looks super flattering to : link

-This one, I'm not sure it would flatter my body, but I think it is super sexy, bad ass and it kinda says "I might F you, but then again, I might just kick your ass," which I like. link

-MAYBE this. If it's something your into, the whole costumey thing. However, it looks like the corset alone would do if you do not want to dress up as a cop. I like it, but it kind of gives me the impression that it could look cheap in person and may not flatter well. That's just the skeptic in me though. Lol link

-And these could be paired with any of the above to enhance your PVC look. LOL: link

Like Alice said, the Mistress line does look sexy! From what I have heard, it's pretty decent quality too.

Here's another one that I wishlisted and think is sexy, but still don't have the guts to put my body in it link

-Maybe this? link

-Also, this is a dress, but I think it's really sexy, and if you guys were going out somewhere on a date and you wanted to turn him on throughout the date and then break bad on him, this would so do it! link

-And then we're back to my love of ruffles. Not sure if this would fit what you're lookin' for, but it has the nice mix between sweet, feminine ruffle and sexy bad ass: link

-These pants, I don't think I'd really buy, but maybe? link

-Then there's the similar shorts, which are extremely sexy: link

-This one also looks fabulous! link

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- This I adore, but it looks like the shorts would do awful things to my tiny hiney. It is sexy though! link

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Those are all nice ones to choose from! I believe almost every one of those I listed are on my wishlist too!

Sorry if I gave you fetish wear overload.

Yikes. Sorry for not postin' them as pics! I totally forgot how!
06/21/2012
K101 K101
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Originally posted by Ryuson
Oooh those are nice! I also really like the honeycomb one! You guys are too darned awesome with all of your suggestions! Do you think that this one is subtly dominant? Or do you think that it's still a bit too cute? (It's also on sale ...
Now that is absolutely adorable and sexy!
06/21/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
Oooh those are nice! I also really like the honeycomb one! You guys are too darned awesome with all of your suggestions! Do you think that this one is subtly dominant? Or do you think that it's still a bit too cute? (It's also on sale ...
That's cute! It's all in how you sell it.
06/21/2012
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
Oooh those are nice! I also really like the honeycomb one! You guys are too darned awesome with all of your suggestions! Do you think that this one is subtly dominant? Or do you think that it's still a bit too cute? (It's also on sale ...
Very sexy and cute! I think this is what you are looking for. Glad to hear you like my suggestion.
06/21/2012
Ms. N Ms. N
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
Oooh those are nice! I also really like the honeycomb one! You guys are too darned awesome with all of your suggestions! Do you think that this one is subtly dominant? Or do you think that it's still a bit too cute? (It's also on sale ...
I have this set, and it is lovely, but if you have more of a chest than the model, the side without the strap is going to droop a little bit. Oh, and the lace pattern is different.
06/21/2012
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