First time sex with a virgin girl

Hey, my girlfriend finally wants to lose it. Well she is a bit paranoid about going through the pain of intercourse and all. And she is kinda tight down. So is there any lubes you would recommend that would make the process less painful for her?
I'd also need some suggestion how I should go about it...cause I have never had sex with a virgin girl before. Reply

This is a very good lube: link And if she's willing, I think that would be a good idea to have her play with a toy before you try penetration with penis. Reply

As per suggestions for sex with a virgin girl, Id say lots of lube, lots of foreplay, and follow her lead. Reply

Do not forget about condoms! Reply

The key to any woman's pleasure is relaxing atmosphere. If your girl is relaxed and not worrying about how she looks, if she is great in bed or is she going to get an orgasm - first time would one of the most pleasurable moments. So just talk to each other and understand that there shouldn't be any goal. The more relaxed she is the less pain she feels. Glass of wine can help - but don't drink more than this! Reply

Definitely relax and take your time. Maximus or Probe are both excellent lubes and are not likely to irritate her (some water-based lubes have ingredients that different skin types will react to). Also, your hands and tongue can provide penetration to thoroughly turn her on! Reply

Some virgins ARE very tight, and it make take several attempts over several days or weeks to successfully enter her. If you are patient and gentle with her, she will gradually relax and things will get easier. The vagina is an amazing thing with a great capacity to stretch and eventually fit you. It just may take time, so work on helping her to develop her arousal, to the point where she is very wet with natural lubricant. You are her first lover, and she will remember how you treated her gift for the rest of her life. Take your time with her, and it will be well worth it, believe me! Reply