He says it makes things so slippery that he can't feel anything, and that he needs a lot of friction to come. He is a very aggressive thruster.
I cannot have sex without it. Too much friction makes sex painful for me, and makes my girlie bits swell up afterward. I have fleshy labia, so I like to put it around the outside to keep the skin from getting pulled around too much. We do not put it inside me, or on his penis since nature takes care of that.
We have a variety of KY products. The warming liquid has my favorite texture, and usually the one I pick. I'm not being excessive with it, and I think my BF is being a little over dramatic. It is rare that he can't come.
Anyway, is there a better choice for us? Something that would keep everything moving, but still give him the friction he needs? I'd maybe like to explore a seed oil, like grapeseed or avocado. Anyone tried these?