We use it all the time. When I ask to re-apply if needed he says it feels fine but I just like it to be super slick. I just don't feel like the lubricant my body produces is enough or lasts long enough no matter how turned on I am.
We rarely ever use lube unless we're doing anal. Do you use lube regularly or is it just a rare occasion to pull out the bottle?
We use it for anal (obviously) and I use it with toys when I'm alone. When I'm with him, I get wet enough to not need lube for either toys or him vaginally.
After I had my babies and when I was on the Pill and when I had some hormonal problems, I needed lube or I would get sore and torn. I'm on some estrogen cream now, so I don't need lube for PIV or toys with him.