Since you don't know yet if you'll have an issue, I would actually suggest the Sliquid Lube Cube
. Eden doesn't carry it unfortunately, but Babeland does and it's got small sample packs of a bunch of different types of sliquid lube. It would give you a chance to try them out and see how you react, that way if you like any one in particular you can get more of it. I've never used a warming or cooling lube but I haven't personally had any issues with sliquid - they seem pretty good for sensitive folks, from what I've heard.