Questions about "pocket pussy" type toys

raffi raffi
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ok so, since I am female I do not have the experience that a man would have regarding sensations felt during sex, oral, masturbation etc etc etc.

So here is my dilemna- my mate and I are together only occasionally due to distance. While I have plenty of toys to keep me occupied, he does not.

I've been very curious if using one of these is any different or better than using your own hand?

Would this be something that would be very weird to receive as a gift? (He buys me a toy or some other random gift somewhat often)

When we get together, we use my toys - because I'm sorry to tell you but the right toy for a woman is intense, good luck keeping up guys. --are any of the male toys comparable to that type of feeling?
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Originally posted by raffi
ok so, since I am female I do not have the experience that a man would have regarding sensations felt during sex, oral, masturbation etc etc etc.

So here is my dilemna- my mate and I are together only occasionally due to distance. While I have ... More
Get him a fleshlight. Don't bother with the cheap pocket pussies. No comparison IMO.
03/15/2013
nevets69 nevets69
Quote:
Originally posted by raffi
ok so, since I am female I do not have the experience that a man would have regarding sensations felt during sex, oral, masturbation etc etc etc.

So here is my dilemna- my mate and I are together only occasionally due to distance. While I have ... More
from what i hear, the fleshlight is a comparable experience for a man.
03/15/2013
spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
I don't use toys, so I can't answer if these are better then my hand. But what I have heard about fleshlights, they might be the way to go.
03/15/2013
B8trDude B8trDude
It's depends, some are great and others are useless. You generally can't go wrong with a Fleshlight or a Tenga. Although those are on the high end, I have had a few inexpensive ones that are also good. In fact, I've got one now that I hope to review over the weekend.

As far as being "weird" is concerned - it really depends on your guy and what he wants.
03/15/2013
raffi raffi
it's bad, I'm very bashful about these types of convos face to face. I think I'll just have one delivered ll and not say anything ...I'm sure he'll mention it immediately - he's the farthest thing from bashful that's possible!

Flesh light....
03/16/2013
Fluke Fluke
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Originally posted by raffi
ok so, since I am female I do not have the experience that a man would have regarding sensations felt during sex, oral, masturbation etc etc etc.

So here is my dilemna- my mate and I are together only occasionally due to distance. While I have ... More
It is better *because* it is different! That's what keeps sex being awesome every time, variety! Being able to swap from your hand to a sex toy gives options; sometimes your hand is better and sometimes the toy blows you away.

If he buys you sexy gifts then he'll most likely like sexy gifts from you. There are some good cheap masturbators out there but with the 25% march sale you can get a good fleshlight for cheap and they are the best!

Woman trumps sex toy every day of the week and twice on sunday.

If I were you I'd hook up some webcams and do some hot long distance video sex while using the toys.
03/17/2013
raffi raffi
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Originally posted by Fluke
It is better *because* it is different! That's what keeps sex being awesome every time, variety! Being able to swap from your hand to a sex toy gives options; sometimes your hand is better and sometimes the toy blows you away.

If he buys ... More
***Woman trumps sex toy every day of the week and twice on sunday.*** LOL

i have a droid and he has an iphone - we use an app called "tango" it's perfect for voice and/or video
03/17/2013
Incendiaire Incendiaire
You could always get him one of these.
03/17/2013
TheCleansing TheCleansing
I wouldn't call any male sex toy comparable to actually having sex with a real woman, but I would cite Tenga and Fleshlight as among the best experiences in the scope of male sex toys.
03/17/2013
Haito Haito
Hey Raffi! I'm in a very similar situation. My fiance and I are on seperate ends of the country and only get to be intimate on breaks and when I can get a cheap flight to visit her. Skyping and toys have been our sexual savior, so to speak and I can tell you that a good toy is worth it's weight and makes masturbating far less tedious!

There are lots of great products out there for this, most of which can be found here on edenfantasys.com! For quality, your best bet would be one of the fleshlight series, because there's so much variety to choose from, including a host of fetish products like the Fleshlight Freaks line! Tenga Flip Holes and Flip Airs also provide an intense experience that is far better than just using one's hand! The closest you can get to the duplication of actual sex would require a love doll and meiki combination, but those can be very expensive! Also, it could cause some issues if you have a jealous bone or two... Meiki's are actually made from scans of Japanese AV model genetalia... They're essentially carbon copies of the insides of a pornstar's vagina. My fiance doesn't particularly like for me to use those because it feels like I'm spending time in another woman to her. Hope I helped! If you have any specific questions, feel free to msg me!
03/18/2013
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