Does having a simultaneous orgasm with your partner enhance your experience or distract it?

slcadman slcadman
I had a girlfriend once who said she didn't like it when we happened to cum at the same time because I changed what I was doing and it diminished it. Was curious if this true for others.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
16  (29%)
No
35  (62%)
It diminishes slightly, but the experience is worth it
5  (9%)
Total votes: 56
Poll is closed
07/26/2012
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darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I voted yes, it enhances it. To me, it's one of the most amazing feelings I can experience.
07/26/2012
skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
In general, sex feels better to me when I KNOW he's enjoying it. More he likes it the more I like it. So yes, it feels better for me and does not distract me.
07/26/2012
SecretToyMan SecretToyMan
When I cum I slow myself. And often it will be right as my wife is going to cum. Therefore she will be on the verge and I will pause, which kills it for her. So lately I have been working on letting her cum as much as she possibly can before I cum
07/26/2012
asandahl asandahl
I like to cum at the same time.
07/26/2012
Edeneve Edeneve
I love it if we orgasm together...it's quite exciting for me to see his ecstasy
07/26/2012
Mwar Mwar
When it happens, we both tend to like it more.
07/26/2012
Lady Bear Lady Bear
No, its usually really nice when that happens.
07/26/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by slcadman
I had a girlfriend once who said she didn't like it when we happened to cum at the same time because I changed what I was doing and it diminished it. Was curious if this true for others.
That is surprising to me. It seems like anytime me and my S/O are experiencing something amazing at the same time, it just enhances that feeling.
07/26/2012
leanright69 leanright69
Together is the best and is a bonding moment. Far and few between that is what makes it so sweet.
07/26/2012
Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
Slightly, but I prefer to cum together
07/26/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I love it when we come together, it is something I strive for every time. Something about the contractions of the vagina and the pulses from my penis at the same time is just heavenly.
07/26/2012
Feisty Feisty
its nice to do it together
07/26/2012
Beck Beck
I love when we cum together. It's very powerful. It's not something that happens all the time. So, I love when it happens.
07/26/2012
PeachCandy PeachCandy
We also like to cum together
07/26/2012
ss143 ss143
We are okay with either. We like to cum at the same time but we also like being able to enjoy watching and hearing each other taking satisfaction and enjoyment
07/26/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Cumming together is amazing. I love it.
07/26/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
It's great when we go together, but I need to start first.
07/26/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I like cumming together with my partner.
07/26/2012
puppylove puppylove
It enhances the experience for me, I like when we both can get off at the same time, and then collapse there side by side in the after math
07/26/2012
Boyfriend Boyfriend
It enhances and makes my orgasm more powerful when we finish at the same time.
07/26/2012
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
I prefer when we can cum together
07/26/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by slcadman
I had a girlfriend once who said she didn't like it when we happened to cum at the same time because I changed what I was doing and it diminished it. Was curious if this true for others.
It's hard to do, and it's definitely easier to not try to orgasm simultaneously, but it has a lot of meaning for us when we do, so we usually try to do it.
07/26/2012
indiglo indiglo
Those rare times when it happens it's awesome. Sometimes if I'm right on the edge, his orgasm will be just enough to send me over the edge. I feel like it makes my orgasm stronger.
07/27/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
I love when it happens at the same time for both of us. It's such a great bonding moment and it definitely excites me more to know he enjoyed it as much as I did.
07/27/2012
brevado brevado
I find it funny that the question is one or the other, but the choices are yes or no?
10/04/2012
SoloJoe SoloJoe
i like it when we cum together
10/05/2012
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
I like to cum at the same time
10/05/2012
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
I LOVE when we cum at the same time...so great. Often, knowing that he's about to cum pushes me over the edge.
10/05/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Doesn't really matter.
10/05/2012
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