Ex Fiancee Asked Me For A Fleshlight!

SaraBroughman SaraBroughman
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What does it mean if he broke up with me a week ago, yet he told me he wanted me to have the porn he'd bought, and that he would rather have had a fleshlight?

I told him I could get him one, though we dont know if it would be innapropriate, and he said, maybe that would be okay.

Do you think it's a bad idea? I dont want to fall into the friend with benefits category.

Is it inappropriate? Does it mean he still wants me or is he just using me for sex toys?

I know he doesn't think it's the same as making love to me, I'm sure he's going to see that.

Just wanted your opinions and comments?

Thanks for the help guys.
03/22/2013
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Taylor Taylor
I personally wouldn't get him one. If you guys broke up you don't owe him anything. He can buy his own toys if he wants them so much.
03/22/2013
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I personally wouldn't get him anything if he wants a toy he can order it himself.
I don't know I am just fully following your breakup and whatnot maybe I am missing something
03/22/2013
ashboo32 ashboo32
To me, that's pretty insulting and I wouldn't get him one!
03/23/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
Um, no. I wouldn't be buying an ex anything. That just sounds odd to even ask your ex to purchase something for you...he can get his own stuff.
03/23/2013
Fluke Fluke
Sounds like he is trying to trade some old porn to you for you buying him a new sex toy. Bad deal for you. I always like to keep on good terms with my ex's but don't let them squeeze money/stuff out of you, just respectfully decline and look towards a bright new exciting future!
03/23/2013
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by SaraBroughman
What does it mean if he broke up with me a week ago, yet he told me he wanted me to have the porn he'd bought, and that he would rather have had a fleshlight?

I told him I could get him one, though we dont know if it would be ... More
Man, just get grid of this guy! You definitely deserve better! He is just playing around with you! He is leading you on with the thought of a Fleshlight toy! As you said, "Do you think it's a bad idea? I don't want to fall into the friend with benefits category. Is it inappropriate? Does it mean he still wants me or is he just using me for sex toys?" He IS using you as a sex toy!
03/23/2013
GONE! GONE!
Don't do it! Fleshlights are way more expensive than porn. I mean who even buys porn anymore... It's free everywhere all over the internet.
03/24/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by Taylor
I personally wouldn't get him one. If you guys broke up you don't owe him anything. He can buy his own toys if he wants them so much.
Agreed. lol. How redic of him.
03/24/2013
melissa1973 melissa1973
Oh hell mo lol. You get stuff that you wantforget the douch that's what the X is for. Kick him to the curb.
03/24/2013
melissa1973 melissa1973
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Originally posted by melissa1973
Oh hell mo lol. You get stuff that you wantforget the douch that's what the X is for. Kick him to the curb.
Sorry guys I can't see what's being typed on the forums, I see the up and down line but that's it.
03/24/2013
Peggi Peggi
I guess it depends on what type of relationship you have now...I tend to stay friends with my ex's, aside from one, so if one were to ask me for something like that I'd be totally fine with it, because we're still friends, still hang out, still go to dinner together, hell one of my ex's is going to be living in the duplex my hubby and I own, renting the lower level from us. She takes us out to dinner, we all get on just fine, my hubby adores my ex's (except that one), so if one were to ask I wouldn't even question it. But they also know that we aren't together and that I don't do the friends with benefits thing.

That being said, if the one ex I DON'T hold a friendship with were to ask, I'd offer to get it for him with Eden points or something, and he could pay me in cash for a certain % off, but he wouldn't get it for free because he was a jerk, and I'd only do it because I'm nice even though I almost hate him (there are few people who I can say I honestly hate, and hate is a VERY strong word for me, so he's just at that very thin line before it) so I'd do it just because I like money, and I'm nice, but I'd make sure I said something along the lines of "sure, at least you'll have something to make up for not having me around" or something to that effect. I'd make sure he knows it doesn't mean I want him back or that I'd allow him to use me for sex, (well, now that I have a wonderful man in my life I wouldn't anyway, but even if it had been before my hubby and I met, I'd still have made the same strong points) and that I'm doing a favor for him, but it doesn't mean anything emotional to me.

BUT take this advice with a grain of salt. I am a stubborn person, and stick to my guns so to speak. An ex is an ex for a reason to me, and unless it was a mutual breakup because of something like not being available to spend time together or whatnot, an ex is what an ex will always be.
03/25/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by SaraBroughman
What does it mean if he broke up with me a week ago, yet he told me he wanted me to have the porn he'd bought, and that he would rather have had a fleshlight?

I told him I could get him one, though we dont know if it would be ... More
If he does not want you stop taking his calls. Let him do his own shopping.
03/25/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
Tell him to kick rocks. I wouldn't buy anything for an ex, let alone sex toys. It opens the door to a world of hurt and chaos.
03/25/2013
Bme Bme
That is something he should be buying for himself. You do not break up with someone and ask them to buy you something.
03/25/2013
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