This happened to me as well. I saved up for the alien, and as soon as I went to order it, it was out of stock. I chose the Ice Lady but am not too thrilled with her. I don't know if my experience would have been better if I picked a different Fleshlight. The texture does feel amazing, but for me it just wasn't tight enough.
The Ice Lady was my first Fleshlight, so I'm not sure if others are tighter than that one is. If you have tried them before and actually enjoy them, the Ice Lady isn't a bad choice. Cornstartch is a absolute must after every use or she'll be impossible to get back into the case.
Wait for the alien to come back in stock. I was about to order another one too and the same thing happened to me.
I agree. If your heart is set on the alien just sign up for an alert when it is back in stock. I only voted for JH because that would be my second choice.