How do you introduce cock rings and/or masturbators to your boyfriend?

kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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I use sex toys and boyfriend does not mind this. He actually thinks it is sexy and good for me while he is away, but how do I go about introducing items to use on him. He has said that he would not want a realistic looking masturbator because it would make him feel awkward, but has mentioned he wanted to try cock rings every once and a while. I guess I'm asking if I should ask him about using a cock ring or just pull it out and see what his reaction is. I know he'll use it, but I don't want to seem pushy. Any suggestions?
10/16/2012
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Bill220 Bill220
I'm a guy and it wouldn't bother me if my wife whipped out a new toy to try. But, everyone isn't like me. If he's shy or hesitant, maybe you and him could shop for one online and have some fun with it.
10/16/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Start off with something stretchy like the EF cock ring, it will be comfortable for him to wear and gives the extra stimulation of the vibe. I would just pull it out one day and ask him if he is willing to try it. You might avoid doing this right before sex so as not to put him on the spot.
10/16/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Bill220
I'm a guy and it wouldn't bother me if my wife whipped out a new toy to try. But, everyone isn't like me. If he's shy or hesitant, maybe you and him could shop for one online and have some fun with it.
Thanks I think I am going to just whip it out and see where that gets me.
10/16/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Start off with something stretchy like the EF cock ring, it will be comfortable for him to wear and gives the extra stimulation of the vibe. I would just pull it out one day and ask him if he is willing to try it. You might avoid doing this right ... More
Thanks for the comment. Hopefully it works
10/16/2012
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
pull one out one day, he will either go for it (i would) or he wont.

either way you've gotten an answer to your question.
10/16/2012
Rossie Rossie
I've tried without success. I bought a Super soft C-ring, showed it to him, and he told me to keep that thing away from him! Good thing the reason why I bought that ring was to qualify for free shipping, and not much money was wasted!
10/16/2012
Kittybit Kittybit
haha my guy found the free EF cock ring in my toy box and suggested we use it...apparently it he liked it as he has mention possibly obtaining more.
10/16/2012
kurtster79 kurtster79
I am the one who actually brought up using a cockring in my marriage an my wife got the EF one with a few orders.
10/17/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
I know he'll use it so that's good, but I haven't brought it up yet. I guess We'll find out. Thanks to everyone who has commented.
10/17/2012
Checkmate Checkmate
Since he has already indicated that he wants to try a cock ring, I would say go for it and surprize him. I personally would love to have my wife surprize me any sexual gift!
10/20/2012
Fluke Fluke
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
I use sex toys and boyfriend does not mind this. He actually thinks it is sexy and good for me while he is away, but how do I go about introducing items to use on him. He has said that he would not want a realistic looking masturbator because it ... More
You can surprise a guy with a masturbator and he'll enjoy it.

But I wouldn't surprise someone with a cock ring. If he hints at it, that means he is into it but unsure if it will freak you out. So buy it and go for it and good luck
10/21/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
My bf works away from home so I just sent him a pocket pussy, deep throat, shave cream & a candle. He was so excited. I was kinda worried at first but I just told him to try them with an open mind and he liked them.
10/22/2012
jr2012 jr2012
yeah I would definitely not spring it on him! Maybe something like, oh honey, if I spend $15 more, I get free shipping, would you like me to maybe get [particular toy] or [another toy] for you?

I feel like having him participate in the shopping would make him more excited once it arrives!
10/22/2012
Shade Shade
Quote:
Originally posted by Bill220
I'm a guy and it wouldn't bother me if my wife whipped out a new toy to try. But, everyone isn't like me. If he's shy or hesitant, maybe you and him could shop for one online and have some fun with it.
I agree. If your husband is indeed a bit hesitant (hence the awkwardness to realistic masturbators), then shop together for something online.
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