Hey guys! I'm new here and I just came across the Fleshlight on the internet today while I was trying to learn how to last long in bed. I am a virgin and I have a very special girl and I would like to impress her for our first time. We did try once, but she too is a virgin and when I tried to go inside of her she kept saying it hurt. This was after about 45 minutes of foreplay in bed too such as touching/tickling/kiss ing her almost everywhere and making sure I was giving her pleasure and she was pretty wet. I'm thinking about using lube next time to make it easier. Anyways to get back on topic I would like to know which FL would be best for me and my goals. I am 5.5 inches in length and 5 inches in circumference (or girth??) and also uncut/uncircumcised. My main goal is to last a good amount in bed with a girl so the first thing that caught my eye was the STU(stamina training unit). But I've read a good amount of reviews and some people say its kind of loose. So i then focused on the Lady Lager sex in a can seeing that it is a smaller version from a regular FL but some people say thats too tight?? So please if theres anyone out there that would know about a good product that would help my stamina and that would work well with my length and girth please point me in the right direction THANKS!!