Advices for a good start

Hitachi Magic Wand would be your best bet.
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My dear, you should definitely try a vibrating cock ring together with your hubby.
As for your "solo fun" I'd recommend you try a rabbit vibrator. Delicious.

It's true! Everyone seems to really be enjoying the hitachi and there are several different attachments you can get for it as well. I would also recommend the xtreme pack g spot bullet vibe and as far as lubes go, I've personally tried the wet heating massage lotion in watermelon and really like it. There are rave reviews on the system h20 lubricant and it is also flavored. I hope to try it soon! Then there is maximus which is unflavored but seems to be quite the favorite! So, I would suggest getting a better lube! =)

There's some great advice in here, I add my vote that the Hitachi is a great toy for a lady's toy box as well as a rabbit vibe - consider the Decadent Indulgence or the Rabbit Pearl here. For a vibrating cock ring maybe consider the Tickling Tongue Ring or the Buzz Buddies Pleasure Ring. I would also suggest a nice dildo like the Raquel or the Niagara. For lubes, get a nice water based lube like Maximus (thicker) or Liquid Silk (thinner) and maybe a silicone based lube of some kind. All of that would get a toy box off to a great start.

Waterproof Turbo Glider Blueberry. One of the best vibes EVER, and well under $20!

Definitely pick up a better lube. I'd vote for Maximus and System Jo H2O flavored. Those are both water based and safe with all toys. A good silicone lube for water play would be good too, I'd suggest Pink or Eros.

The Hitachi is a must. It works great for back and muscle massage as well as awesome clitoral stimulation. There are some really great attachments for it also, so you could pop an attachment on and have a super strong G-spot and clitoral vibe. The G-pod and Tri-pod both sound awesome, sadly I haven't gotten to try them yet, but I believe there are some pretty good reviews for them.

A staple for me is a good bullet or egg style vibe. They are little and strong, can be used for foreplay, are small enough to not interfere too much during sex, and they are great for solo play as well. I loved my Golden Nugget until it died on me, and I have also been enjoying my Xtreme Pack g-spot vibe and Daisy vibe. They are all really good choices.

A cock ring is good too. The stretchy ones will usually fit a good variety of sizes and some include a vibrating bullet for the clit. I have the Tickling Tongue ring and both my husband and I love it. It is actually long enough to reach the clit and it is stretchy enough to be comfortable for him and add more pleasure for both of us.

Jimbo Jones gave some great suggestions on Dildos. I would suggest sticking to silicone because of them being so hygienic and easy to care for. I have a plain looking Perk and the Lone Star which is more girthy but is made from VixSkin (same as the Raquel). I'd suggest you look at lentgh and girth and pick something that looks good to you. Some people love ridges, some people hate 'em.

Those are my recommendations. Water based lube for out of water play, silicone based lube for tub/shower/pool play, the Hitachi, a bullet vibe, cock ring, and a good dildo. A Rabbit style vibe would be a good addition too. I hope you and your husband end up loving whatever you decide to go with!

Thank you so much. I really appreciate your help.

There's still something more I'd like to ask you, how about the expensive and "glamorous" toys (Gigi, Delicious, Little Chroma, Elise, Liv, etc.)? They cost quite a bunch and I must believe they are really worth that, aren't they?

Wow!!! Dame Demi you're Damn good, I must say.
Thanks once again for your suggestion and recommendations. Some of your advices are worthier than hundreds of toys I must believe.

I think I'll call it a day and start digging the site for what you have recommended. Otherwise, any other suggestions?

I really think DD has you pretty much covered on fantastic advice! I love her! I would also recommend trying to stick with silicone toys. Just wanted to throw that in there.... Most of the high end toys such as toys by lelo are silicone which is part of the appeal of them. Silicone is non porous and can be steralized so it can also be shared. I hope you find some fantastic toys to fit your needs and have fun doing so!

What can I say, I have no life!

Oggins is right, silicone is definitely your best bet for toys, though I didn't actually recommend anything yet that is silicone. The Xtreme and Blueberry are both hard plastic and fairly sanitary. The Decadent Indulgence I believe they are now making in TPR Silicone, so no phthalates. Covering with a condom is a good idea, especially if you might be sharing. I was just trying to give a good assortment of basic toys that would give you an idea of the variety of what's available without making any huge investments until you know what you like (well, besides the rabbits, but I think they're worth spending a little more on just to make sure they actually WORK!). Good luck!

And thanks, Oggins! The love is mutual!

When we started out, we went with a kit that has a variety of items. Although they aren't the best in quality, it will give you a good idea of what you like and don't, then invest in the ones you really like by getting "better" products. Everyone has their own favorites but the above ideas all sound great!