My boyfriend and I are looking for a strap on to use and I am looking for a good one with a clitoral stimulator for me while I'm wearing it, and not just a regular strap on. Any recommendations?
Featured by EdenFantasys
Best Strap-On for Straight Couple
labellavie14
08/08/2010
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
Forum highlights on Dildo harness:
Strap-On Cock Ring FTM Use
Do you guys think this could be used as a packing harness?
Red Strap On?
I'm not sure if I post it in this category but yeah. My girlfriend & I want to get our first strap on. She wants it to be red. We are both pretty...
#AskEden - washable harnesses discontinued?
I am totally bummed to see a bunch of non-leather harnesses, like the Tomboi and the Aslan vegan harness, discontinued this week. I have been really..
Do you have trouble purchasing harnesses online (size/fit)?
How have you found harness purchasing online in terms of sizing etc?
What happened to Aslan Harnesses?
I haven't seen Aslan harnesses on the website for a bit. Am I not seeing them or is Eden not carrying the product line anymore?
Strap-On Cock Ring FTM Use
Do you guys think this could be used as a packing harness?
Red Strap On?
I'm not sure if I post it in this category but yeah. My girlfriend & I want to get our first strap on. She wants it to be red. We are both pretty...
#AskEden - washable harnesses discontinued?
I am totally bummed to see a bunch of non-leather harnesses, like the Tomboi and the Aslan vegan harness, discontinued this week. I have been really..
Do you have trouble purchasing harnesses online (size/fit)?
How have you found harness purchasing online in terms of sizing etc?
What happened to Aslan Harnesses?
I haven't seen Aslan harnesses on the website for a bit. Am I not seeing them or is Eden not carrying the product line anymore?
08/08/2010
I much prefer my Spareparts Joque harness for a great strap-on. It has a pouch where you can place a vibrator in it for clitoral stimulation. It holds up our dildo well and everything. Fits perfectly against my body and is very form-fitting and comfortable.
08/08/2010
Quote:
Congrats! He'll love the pegging. We started some time ago and ENJOY IT! There really isn't any harness that stimulates the woman directly. Some by luck may have it happen, but sorry. The jockey ones are probably the best so you can masturbate during pegging. My girl does that. Now she wants a thigh strapon so she can really peg me and masturbate at the same time.
Originally posted by
labellavie14
My boyfriend and I are looking for a strap on to use and I am looking for a good one with a clitoral stimulator for me while I'm wearing it, and not just a regular strap on. Any recommendations?
08/08/2010
If you want to be stimulated as well it's hard to beat one of the "new" (they're really about 15 years old) doubles such as the Feeldoe, Share, Nexus or the like. The downside is that length (for pegging you really want 5-1/2" or more of insertable length on his end) often goes with width, and the smaller doubles (Share XS, Feeldoe Jr) don't always work well because of this (short dildos tend to slip out of him).
If you get a harness such as many of the Outlaw Leather models (and, I believe, the Aslan Jaguar) you can mount two dildos back to back so one goes into you and one goes into him. You also want to get a harness that allows you to set the dildo to "ride low" so the base presses against your vulva and clit with each thrust or grind.
Some harnesses have a vibrator pouch, but these can be more difficult to clean (I/we've never tried one so this is just conjecture). You can also rig up some way to get a small vibrator mounted against your clit via other means (one with a remote battery pack/control will work better). If you're boyfriends really up to the pegging and agitating for it setting up a way to get you off can be a good task for him...
If you get a harness such as many of the Outlaw Leather models (and, I believe, the Aslan Jaguar) you can mount two dildos back to back so one goes into you and one goes into him. You also want to get a harness that allows you to set the dildo to "ride low" so the base presses against your vulva and clit with each thrust or grind.
Some harnesses have a vibrator pouch, but these can be more difficult to clean (I/we've never tried one so this is just conjecture). You can also rig up some way to get a small vibrator mounted against your clit via other means (one with a remote battery pack/control will work better). If you're boyfriends really up to the pegging and agitating for it setting up a way to get you off can be a good task for him...
08/09/2010
I prefer a harness that rides low and a dil base that will hit my clit as I thrust. The Aslan Jaguar and the SpareParts are both awesome for this.
I will also use another dil, sometimes, like the Tex, in my vagina or a one piece double dil such as the Tango.
I will also use another dil, sometimes, like the Tex, in my vagina or a one piece double dil such as the Tango.
08/09/2010
Absolutely loved this one - link - it held up nicely, never shifted anywhere and it's so realistic it drove us absolutely wild
Finely adjustable, very mice girthy shafts - both for him and for me
Finely adjustable, very mice girthy shafts - both for him and for me
11/05/2018
Quote:
My wife likes to do it this way as well. Aslan has something called the Double-up cuff. It's a small leather piece that holds a dildo in place for the woman wearing the harness - we ad some zest by adding a cock-ring vibe to the dildo.
Originally posted by
Liz2
I prefer a harness that rides low and a dil base that will hit my clit as I thrust. The Aslan Jaguar and the SpareParts are both awesome for this.
I will also use another dil, sometimes, like the Tex, in my vagina or a one piece double dil such as ... more
I will also use another dil, sometimes, like the Tex, in my vagina or a one piece double dil such as ... more
I prefer a harness that rides low and a dil base that will hit my clit as I thrust. The Aslan Jaguar and the SpareParts are both awesome for this.
I will also use another dil, sometimes, like the Tex, in my vagina or a one piece double dil such as the Tango. less
I will also use another dil, sometimes, like the Tex, in my vagina or a one piece double dil such as the Tango. less
After some practice, she's become quite adept at achieving an orgasm while pegging me
11/06/2018
Quote:
And how about double ended strap-ons? Did they ever work for you? We're getting ready for our first pegging session soon, and some double-ended options had me hooked
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
My wife likes to do it this way as well. Aslan has something called the Double-up cuff. It's a small leather piece that holds a dildo in place for the woman wearing the harness - we ad some zest by adding a cock-ring vibe to the
...
more
My wife likes to do it this way as well. Aslan has something called the Double-up cuff. It's a small leather piece that holds a dildo in place for the woman wearing the harness - we ad some zest by adding a cock-ring vibe to the dildo.
After some practice, she's become quite adept at achieving an orgasm while pegging me less
After some practice, she's become quite adept at achieving an orgasm while pegging me less
11/12/2018
Quote:
Are you thinking of the ones where a female inserts the shorter end in herself and pegs with the other ? I've read reviews where they say it's hard for the female to hold it in. OW also says that. After a length of time it starts slipping down.
Originally posted by
GingerAnn
And how about double ended strap-ons? Did they ever work for you? We're getting ready for our first pegging session soon, and some double-ended options had me hooked
11/12/2018
Quote:
I completely agree - we have a Fun Factory Share and just tried to use it a few times. It didn't work out for a variety of reasons; not long enough, not girthy enough and the 'pony' end not staying inside for her.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Are you thinking of the ones where a female inserts the shorter end in herself and pegs with the other ? I've read reviews where they say it's hard for the female to hold it in. OW also says that. After a length of time it starts slipping down.
Many women who use the Share, Feeldoe and similar dildos in conjunction with a harness.
I would recommend longer models (7"-9"). Depending on your build - and his, having the extra length can make it easier to keep it in once penetration is achieved. It can be frustrating to have it keep popping out
11/13/2018
Quote:
Yes, the insufficient length concern is one of the most common ones that I've heard of. I can imagine, must be very frustrating. Plus I remember reading in one of our other discussions that it's crucial to add up a couple of inches to the size you've initially wanted. It would be pretty hard to thrust so deep that the buttocks won't stand in the way even a bit, so you'd need to account for that additional "reaching in" length.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I completely agree - we have a Fun Factory Share and just tried to use it a few times. It didn't work out for a variety of reasons; not long enough, not girthy enough and the 'pony' end not staying inside for her.
Many women who ... more
Many women who ... more
I completely agree - we have a Fun Factory Share and just tried to use it a few times. It didn't work out for a variety of reasons; not long enough, not girthy enough and the 'pony' end not staying inside for her.
Many women who use the Share, Feeldoe and similar dildos in conjunction with a harness.
I would recommend longer models (7"-9"). Depending on your build - and his, having the extra length can make it easier to keep it in once penetration is achieved. It can be frustrating to have it keep popping out less
Many women who use the Share, Feeldoe and similar dildos in conjunction with a harness.
I would recommend longer models (7"-9"). Depending on your build - and his, having the extra length can make it easier to keep it in once penetration is achieved. It can be frustrating to have it keep popping out less
And about the double-ended options - yes, I've meant the ones that require a woman holding one side with her PC muscles. I had come across reviews where women have stated they've quite enjoyed it, even to the point of an orgasm, but I just assumed you need to have immense Kegel strength to pull this one out. On the other hand, the stimulation and the G-spot pressure a woman must be getting during a pegging session with a double-ended (aka strapless) strap-on must be other-worldly
03/11/2019
Quote:
The only way we have been able to have g-spot stimulation for her during pegging is to use the Aslan double-up cuff which holds a typical dildo in place for her.
Originally posted by
GingerAnn
Yes, the insufficient length concern is one of the most common ones that I've heard of. I can imagine, must be very frustrating. Plus I remember reading in one of our other discussions that it's crucial to add up a couple of inches to the
...
more
Yes, the insufficient length concern is one of the most common ones that I've heard of. I can imagine, must be very frustrating. Plus I remember reading in one of our other discussions that it's crucial to add up a couple of inches to the size you've initially wanted. It would be pretty hard to thrust so deep that the buttocks won't stand in the way even a bit, so you'd need to account for that additional "reaching in" length.
And about the double-ended options - yes, I've meant the ones that require a woman holding one side with her PC muscles. I had come across reviews where women have stated they've quite enjoyed it, even to the point of an orgasm, but I just assumed you need to have immense Kegel strength to pull this one out. On the other hand, the stimulation and the G-spot pressure a woman must be getting during a pegging session with a double-ended (aka strapless) strap-on must be other-worldly less
And about the double-ended options - yes, I've meant the ones that require a woman holding one side with her PC muscles. I had come across reviews where women have stated they've quite enjoyed it, even to the point of an orgasm, but I just assumed you need to have immense Kegel strength to pull this one out. On the other hand, the stimulation and the G-spot pressure a woman must be getting during a pegging session with a double-ended (aka strapless) strap-on must be other-worldly less
Once the harness is adjusted properly it works pretty good. We did find that a shorter girthier dildo (like Vixen Randy) worked better than a longer one (like Vixen Johnny).
Adding a vibrating cock ring to the dildo made the experience much more enjoyable for her!
03/30/2019
Total posts: 13
Unique posters: 9