Bringing Up Penis Sleeves

Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I have recently begun to think it would be fun to try out some of the textured penis sleeves. Yet, I am hesitant to bring it up for fear that it will come out as "your penis is too small." So does anyone have a little advice for a tactful way to suggest it?
12/07/2008
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Sleeping Dreamer Sleeping Dreamer
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I have recently begun to think it would be fun to try out some of the textured penis sleeves. Yet, I am hesitant to bring it up for fear that it will come out as "your penis is too small." So does anyone have a little advice for a tactful ... More
Go for something really textured, that could in no way be seen as natural--- also, if he has a problem with being quick to cum tell him it will help to prolong his orgasm (does for my husband as it partially deadens sensations)..
12/07/2008
Bulma Bulma
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I have recently begun to think it would be fun to try out some of the textured penis sleeves. Yet, I am hesitant to bring it up for fear that it will come out as "your penis is too small." So does anyone have a little advice for a tactful ... More
My husband and I both really liked the 7 stimulator rings set. I showed my husband a picture of them on the site, and I just asked "do you think these look like fun?" Of course I got asked if I was saying his cock wasn't good enough for me, and even though he said it under jest, there was of course some concern. I just pointed out to him how thin they are, and that they really wouldn't provide any added size, just some fun textures. I stress how much my husband liked those sleeves in my review of them, because I was amazed that he actually enjoyed them so much. I think it's key to not get sleeves that are too thick or alien looking. My husband really enjoyed being able to see his penis clearly through the sleeves, and I'd say that we enjoyed them equally. I'd suggest perhaps reading my review of the sleeves then bring it up like this "I read a review of some penis sleeves today, the woman's husband reportedly enjoyed them as much as she did. Maybe we should try something like that, what do you think?" You could then show him the review and shop for a sleeve together, letting him make the final decision. It might help to say something about wanting something that allows you to still be able to see and feel his cock, just so there is no doubt in his mind just how awesome you think he is.
12/07/2008
Tuesday Tuesday
Wow. I just bought one but haven't shown it to my man yet. It hadn't occurred to me that he might assume I thought he was too small. I was going to tell him that its listed as a product for men but that women like it too.
12/07/2008
Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I noticed that the one sleeve I reviewed is actually pretty small relative to the length of an average penis. You may also be able to point out to him that a lot of the sleeves are around 2-3 inches long - unless you are planning on buying one of the bigger ones.
12/07/2008
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I don't know that mine would assume that but it wouldn't be unreasonable if he did. Honestly, I am looking for something which can add some girth so I suppose I'm worried my true intentions will be too obvious.
12/08/2008
Kinky Hubby Kinky Hubby
The wife loves it when I use a heavy textured sleeve. I love to watch her get off when I use one. Just use a fair amount of lube.
12/09/2008
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I don't know that mine would assume that but it wouldn't be unreasonable if he did. Honestly, I am looking for something which can add some girth so I suppose I'm worried my true intentions will be too obvious.
Is he already very insecure about the size of his penis? If he is, then yeah, this going to be tough, and starting small--with something that adds more texture than girth--may be the best way to persuade him in the right direction. Then you can work your way up to girthier toys.

I'm a big mouth, so I'd probably just say that I wanted more girth, but I tend to sleep with people who are just as mean as I am, so what I would do is usually not a good idea.
12/10/2008
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Is he already very insecure about the size of his penis? If he is, then yeah, this going to be tough, and starting small--with something that adds more texture than girth--may be the best way to persuade him in the right direction. Then you can work ... More
LOL at "people just as mean as I am."

I don't think he's very insecure about it at all - I just want to cover my bases.
12/10/2008
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
LOL at "people just as mean as I am."

I don't think he's very insecure about it at all - I just want to cover my bases.
Then it shouldn't be too hard. He knows you like his cock just the way it is. =) Start out with a sleeve that's more textured than girth-adding, then move on to adding girth. I think that keeps most guys feeling secure.
12/10/2008
Pinkypoo Pinkypoo
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Originally posted by Sleeping Dreamer
Go for something really textured, that could in no way be seen as natural--- also, if he has a problem with being quick to cum tell him it will help to prolong his orgasm (does for my husband as it partially deadens sensations)..
Thanks for poting this comment, I was reading the other thread and notice your answer. When it helped me
02/19/2010
catalunalilith catalunalilith
thanks everyone
07/15/2011
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