i first bought a cheapo kit that included a large jelly dildo. it sucked
i then bought the spareparts bare as you dare because of excellent reviews. it was a wonderful harness, sadly it has plastic bits that might break over time.
after saving up almost 4000 points, the joque came on sale. i think i paid 11 dollars with free shipping. the joque is a fantastic harness, it does everything a harness should and even includes pouches for small vibes.
if you have the money, go for joque. if not buy the spareparts and invest in a good dildo.