I love my Fleshlight
. Best masturbation toy I've ever used, by far. The Tenga
toys are supposed to be good, too, but I don't have one.
Cock rings are great for use during intercourse. A good cock ring can make my dick incredibly hard, which can lead to different sensations than normal. I occasionally use one along with my Fleshlight, due to the changes in sensation.
Vibrators can be nice, but it's difficult to find one that really works well on a penis. I like using my Fairy Wand
(a Hitachi knock-off) on my penis. It can give me a really strong orgasm extremely quickly if I hold it against the shaft of my penis. There are some new vibrators out there designed specifically for use on the penis (such as the Cobra Libre
) but I haven't tried any of them yet.
And of course there's the entire world of anal toys, including prostate stimulators. But I'd probably ask him if he's interested before buying him a toy of that sort. Some guys might not like being surprised with an anal toy.