Oral sex

I want to make my partner feel good, but I dislike oral because it hurts the back of my throat and makes me gag a little. Are there any toys that I can use to make him happy and me comfortable?
Thanks!

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I'd suggest you an open-ended masturbator that gives attention to the majority of your partner's shaft so you can focus just on the head, no having to try to take him all in your mouth.
Plus you can take a break and just use the masturbator.
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Regardless of toys, only participate because you WANT to. If you get to the point where you want to, you can use an open-ended toy (as mentioned above), or just use one or both of your hands as a buffer. Reply

My husband has link and loves it. I also don't mind using it on him, although the "half a face" creeped me out a little when we first used it, lol. No matter how many toys I buy him he still always comes back to wanting me and is happiest with vaginal penetration than use with toys. I know he has the link and says it's pretty easy to use. Reply

I only deep throat my husband once in a while, and although it doesn't really bother me it isn't my favorite thing to do. If I'm getting tired or just don't want his whole cock in my mouth I just use my hand also. So long as you keep your hand pressed next to your lips and create a kind of seal between them, the guy really won't notice much difference and it is much more comfortable. Plus you can do fun twisting motions with your hand at the same time, my man loves this.

And to echo Essin' Em, you should only do it if you want to. Oral sex is a gift that is given, not forced, even verbally. Forced oral sex is rape just as forced or coerced intercourse is rape. Reply