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I want to start a discussion about strap ons.

My partner and I are very into gender play, and were looking for a new strap on harness/dildo set to add to our toy box.

Any information one can offer is greatly appreciated!
05/24/2011
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ScottA ScottA
So what exactly are you looking for? Product suggestions, tips on use, something else?

It sounds as though you may have already experimented with harnesses, so perhaps a brief rundown of what you've used, what you've liked, and what you haven't liked would be good.

As far as generic recommendations go:

Buying separates is the best way to go. This allows you to get a harness that's good for you and a dildo that's good for you. Generally separates also are where you find the highest quality stuff. Good harnesses to look at are those by Aslan Leather, Outlaw Leather and SpareParts. More expensive, but high quality and comfortable.

If you haven't tried a double-ended "strapless" that can be a fun change (use it in a harness for anal play). An O2 or VixSkin dildo can also be fun if you like the realistic look.
05/26/2011
xi xi
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Originally posted by ScottA
So what exactly are you looking for? Product suggestions, tips on use, something else?

It sounds as though you may have already experimented with harnesses, so perhaps a brief rundown of what you've used, what you've liked, and what ...
Her very first strap on was kiiind of a pos. (:

Mostly I'm looking for something that will be comfortable for me and give her enough of a gender play experience, if you know what I mean.

I'm definitely going to look into buying separately, because in my experience when sold together items aren't as worthwhile.

I appreciate the tips and will definitely check those brands out!
06/02/2011
That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I'd try out the Joque with a silicone dildo. Doesn't look like it can hold one with balls, but there are plenty that come without.
Haven't gotten it (yet) but it seems great for beginners and very comfortable.
06/03/2011
oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by xi
I want to start a discussion about strap ons.

My partner and I are very into gender play, and were looking for a new strap on harness/dildo set to add to our toy box.

Any information one can offer is greatly appreciated!
We enjoy anal play on me as a regular part of our sex lives. Many years ago I never dreamed that I would enjoy anal play on me, but as I began to understand my prostate and how anal play can be exciting.

Initially I purchased a vibrating anal toy(Pro Touch from Tantus). When it arrived I asked DW to use it on me while she gave me a blowjob and WOW what an orgasm. Most intense ever. Not only was it more intense, but also I produced much more cum which DW loved. We were both hooked. We have tried other anal toys like vibrating dildos and beads and they are all nice.

From prostate massage we proceeded to strap on sex. We purchased a Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness with a pouch for a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while she does me. It also includes two small silicone dildos(Silk Small-7/8 by 4.5 inches- and Silk Medium-11/4 by 5.5 inches- made by Tantus). Both of these are small and easy to insert with lube(Wet Original). DW put on the harness with the Small Silk dildo). She became so hot as she rubbed lube on the dildo and talked dirty about her D (penis). I got in the doggy position and she lubed my opening. She slowly inserted the dildo in me. It felt so good. She thrust some in this position, but we decided to try a variation on the missionary position. She removed the dildo and I lay on my back with my legs drawn up. She lay between my legs and inserted the dildo in me. In this position she can easily reach my penis for a handjob while she does me. She lubed my penis and went to thrusting while giving me a handjob. It wasn't long until we were both cumming-she from the harness vibrator and me from prostate stimulation and the handjob.

We then purchased a new harness(Buzz Me Tender) which is a little more sturdy and has pouches for two vibrators.

We have graduated to new dildos. A word of caution about dildo size. The maximum dildo diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 1/2 or a little less, but up to 7 inches long or longer is fine. We much prefer silicone dildos. Some we enjoy are Vibrating Mistress(1 3/8 inch by 6 inches) made by Vixen Creations, Vibrating Leisure(! 1/4 by 7 inches) made by Tantus, Acute(Tantus)1.25 by 5 inches and curved, Compact (1 by 5.25 inches-made by Tantus,.

A recent addition is a double dildo. We use Nexus Jr. with a harness and we do each other at the same time. DW had her first squirting orgasm while we were doing each other.

Remember use lots and lots of lube. You can't use too much.

Some couples are concerned about creating a mess. If you have a BM an hour or two before sex things will usually be clran. For me , however, I use a Fleet Enema filled with warm water before sex. i usually fill it three times or until it comes out clear. Also you can use a condom on the dildo.

Hope this helps. Strap on sex is a great addition to our sex lives.She does me about once a week.
06/04/2011
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by That Man from Mars
I'd try out the Joque with a silicone dildo. Doesn't look like it can hold one with balls, but there are plenty that come without.
Haven't gotten it (yet) but it seems great for beginners and very comfortable. ...
Joque, Aslan Commando, even the Sportsheets Latigo Leather isn't bad. You want something soft and adjustable. Stay away from the plastic harnesses at first (Aslan makes decent ones, but they're still much more stiff and harder to adjust).

Do get a silicone dildo and pick it out together. That way you can come up with something you're both happy with.
06/11/2011
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