So any word on these two harnesses? Has anyone tried them both to see how they compare? I purchased a Feeldoe several years ago for my wife, but we have never been able to use it successfully. I was thinking maybe if we got a harness for her to wear with it. These two seem to be among the best for this kind of use, but I am not sure which is better. Is the thong style actually comfortable? More or less stable and comfortable than the jock style? My wife is a Plus-sized woman, so I don't know if one or the other is more comfortable with that in mind.