Depends on the impression(no pun intended) you want to leave on her. A man does not look very masculine going at someon with a pink paddle, or one with little hearts in it so I would recommend away from that if that is what you are tryin to do. My wife is such a good little slave and actually turned a ping pong paddle into an impression paddle so that when I spank her with it it leaves my name in her ass. We have others but that is a constant favorite. If you are intereted let me know, and I can get the wife on here to send you information on how to make one! I love the fact it leaves my name on her and also that she made her own implement of punishment.