I agree that if this is your first experience with a cock ring, you should go with something flexible. This ring,
Beginner Cock Ring, is a great starter ring. It is silicone and pretty stretchy. Measure first to make sure you get the right size. I put measuring instructions in my review of the
Barbed Wire.
I agree with Gunsmoke and Kissaki that the Omega is THE best cock ring available, but it isn't one you want to try first. As we've all said, try the silicone first, and get him used to wearing one. Then move to metal.
The Omega is like moving from one extreme to the other. It's the heaviest one I've found. Worth every penny, but may be too much too soon.
Get him used to wearing one, and work your way up to it. You won't be disappointed.