Curious about cock rings...

raffi raffi
Ok so here I am feeling so naive and innocent because I've never seen or used one.

If I bought one, how can I tell what size to buy? Actually I did buy one and I'm awaiting delivery but I'm not sure if it will fit/how it will fit/how to use it/if it will be weird for him if I just kinda orally stimulate him and put it on myself (or if that's even possible?)

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this is the one I ordered, in black - and from what I can tell, it is a type that is designed to be able to be reused multiple times

For goodness sake, they have them at walmart with condoms, right next to tampons - and I can't even look that way without blushing hot red! My mate has suggested "hey, wanna?" and I just can't buy something like that where someone can see me do it.

Well - here's the internet - taadaa!
03/15/2013
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married with children married with children
You started off with a good one. You don't have to worry too much about sizing your cock ring with a stretchy one. Get the feel for it, see if you enjoy using one. Then go with a stainless steel ring. When you or if you decide on a stainless one, you will need to get a measurement. The easiest way is to use a string. Wrap it around the base of your penis and balls, mark where the string overlaps and measure the distance when laid out flat. You don't want it too tight, but not so loose that it does not do anything.
03/15/2013
Checkmate Checkmate
As married stated, since this ring stretches you should not have a size issue. As far as putting it on your partner, are your initial plans to have it worn at the base of the penis, or around both penis and balls? This ring should work either way. Is your partner shaved or at least well trimmed? If not, you might consider giving him a shave or trim before putting the ring on. This ring can be a real hair puller. Since this ring can be rather constrictive, you also might want to limit the time it is on to 30 min. or so.

Also agree with married with children about the stainless steel rings. After giving this one a go, you might consider a metal ring. For me, they are much more comfortable, and have same or even better results.

Good luck, let us know how it goes, and feel free to ask any other questions.
03/16/2013
raffi raffi
Thank you both so much! I'm like so bashful to talk about anything like this face to face lol.

I don't like the look of him shaved, but trimmed yes - he kinda maintains a long buzzcutt (like idk maybe about 1/4-1/2" long hair). I would imagine getting hair caught would ruin the fun.

I'm thinking I'm going to just..kinda...put it on him, no discussion..hope it doesn't freak him out lol. That said, I'm also thinking just base of his shaft - no scrotum. I'd be concerned I might pull wrong and hurt him if I tried.

I tried to look at all the different options, and this one seemed the best choice because it's wide and stretchy and I'm bad with measurement - he's "average" size and uncircumsized. My toys that I can compare to his size are like 3.5" circumference...but it's a guess.

Hopefully they'll be delivered early this coming week looking forward to it! I ordered a warming massage oil too, I freaking am obsessed with that stuff lol
03/16/2013
Mikemanz Mikemanz
that is a good one to start with. tantus make a nice silicone one also
03/17/2013
Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
A good way to ease into this would be to leave Eden open on this discussion and let him see it. No discussion required.
03/18/2013
Checkmate Checkmate
See you have received it and written review. Glad things went well.
03/24/2013
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