The new bed I just bought has a solid headboard and no real place to loop restraint sets around. Any recommendations on alternatives?
They sell restraints that go under a mattress and you tuck them back under (if you want) when through using them! Sportsheets- under bed restraint system Sale price: $43.99, is sold here at Eden and has reviews that will tell you all about it, plus there are even videos on the product page! The reviews show 65 rated it 5 stars , 19 rated it 4 stars and only one person rated it 2 stars!
I don't know how advanced you are, but if very, these may not be what you're looking for as stated in the 2 star review. However, I tend to think if you are that advanced, you would probably be buying your restraints from a specialty, hardcore BDSM site, not from here where it's mostly beginner stuff. Just my guess. Good luck though and this is where the beauty of Eden shines through; you can read all those reviews and watch the videos to get a good feel for the product and even ask reviewers some questions about the product!
Thanks, the Sex & Mischief ones look really good. Do you have any recommendations for BDSM sites?
Do you mean for buying items, or for learning, or networking? Sorry, I don't know about any of that. I do know everyone recommends Fetlife and bet you'd find all sorts of info and people to ask on there. Many of the members from here are active over there. You might also want to send a PM, or wall post to some of those who are active in the BDSM sections of the forums here. Sir, KrissyNovacaine, KyotoAngel, Dv8, Research are just some of the names that pop to my mind.
However, I am going to tell you how to do a search of the forums here and bet you'll be able to find many recommendations that way. The problem with the on site engine is it's slow, inaccurate and I only use it for recent posts because other search engines won't have gotten that info yet. I hope this helps you because I've seen a lot of discussions you've started that could have been answered with a forum search (and I am not trying to sound chastising!) So, here's my tip & what I do:
Use any search engine you want, but I'll use Google for this example, plus I'll use your question, too.
goto Google, and in the search field enter the following search words just as you would for any other search:
Then, put a space and the following:
So your search will look like the following and you hit enter after (note the only spaces are between your search words and the "site... " part. Sometimes the site makes it look like I put a space after the /, but there isn't one)
BDSM sites site:edenfantasys.com/ sex-forum
Here's some of those results you may find helpful:
If you don't find what you're looking for after doing the site search with whatever search words you think of, then definitely start a discussion and mention in it that you already searched the site (that will help keep people from wasting your time recommending that).