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Do you believe using a clitoral vib during intercourse makes the sex better or does it take away from the intimateness?....That was just a question brought up at a toy party I attended.
I wish I didn't "have to," but lately due to a number of issues, clitoral orgasms ain't happening without a lot of assistance. Good question. I would never be with a partner who was threatened by such things. That's just silly and egotistical in my opinion, but I do understand where the fear of bringing it up comes from! Especially with men; they sometimes worry about "being replaced." Haha! If I wanted to, I could have a lonely life at home alone with my Hitachi, but I choose not to. Silly boys!
Vaginal/G-spot orgasms are great, but don't feel as intense for me as clitoral or "blended" orgasms. So I use a vibe most of the time. I try to keep it down to the small, quiet ones like the Lelo Siri, but I do use my Liberator Axis that you wedge a wand vibe into. It's sexy, great for deep penetration, and just works well for me. But GOODNESS is it LOUD! Especially when you press on it at all.