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It's not the bread and butter of our sex, but I think in lesbian relationships it's much more accepted. This makes me sad, hetero couples should be getting in on the great vibrator action (together) too!!
Oh, a lot of us do!
My Man introduced me to vibrators, when I first started having problems with the orgasm situation. I had a hair trigger orgasm when I was younger, then peri-menopause killed that.
I HAVE TO use a vibe in order to have my first orgasm of the session. We usually play with oral for a while, maybe a little PIV, and more oral, while usually using either a phallic vibe or dildo. Then we get the Wahl (occasionally the Hitachi) and he plays with me, breasts, body, anus, moves the dildo around whatever it takes, while I use the Wahl until I come. Then he goes back down (OMG, what a combination) when I throw the Wahl on the floor and we go at it. I usually have more than one orgasm. After the first one, they are not difficult to have.
He only said something about it once. We were fighting about something else (he had fallen asleep during sex, and I wasn't happy) and he said, "Well, my dick doesn't vibrate at 30,000 RPMs." It hurt my feelings and he felt bad immediately. He understands that I need the vibe and is now always happy to use them. He wants me to feel good, and it does turn him on to see me have a good time.
I asked him later what the problem was (since using vibrators was his idea and I didn't even want to to start out with) and he said, "I was just mad that you called me on the carpet due to dozing off. I was angry and just grabbed at the first thing I could that I thought would hit home. I feel really bad about it. I'm sorry. Really. Grab those toys, baby. I love to see you have a great time!"