Usually I masturbate on my back, but I've been thinking of getting a Liberator Bonbon in order to strengthen my 'girl on top' muscles and stamina. I got to thinking---how many people who use the Bonbon got it because they orgasm more easily when they're riding? And how many people are more following my motivation? Do the people like me actually use their Bonbons, or are they like those well-intentioned rowing machines or treadmills folded up in your hall closet?
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Who uses the Bonbon?
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Originally posted by
Shellz31
I want the BonBon even though I have the Wing (which I love) and the Pulse. But there's no bloody way in hell I'm paying out $135 just on the shipping! It's insane.
Damn glad I got the other two before that came in - but pissed I ...
Damn glad I got the other two before that came in - but pissed I ...
I want the BonBon even though I have the Wing (which I love) and the Pulse. But there's no bloody way in hell I'm paying out $135 just on the shipping! It's insane.
Damn glad I got the other two before that came in - but pissed I didn't grab BonBon at the same time.
Damn glad I got the other two before that came in - but pissed I didn't grab BonBon at the same time.
08/26/2011
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Interesting! I always stop (do you still call it thrusting when you're the receiver?... well, anyway) bouncing when I hit the orgasm plateau---and that, of course, throws off/shortens/makes lame my orgasm.
Originally posted by
NuclearTeapot
I get off so easily when on top that it is shameful!
Sadly, I do not have the money or the gazillions of points to be getting any of the liberator products now, but I do dream and lust over them quite often.
Sadly, I do not have the money or the gazillions of points to be getting any of the liberator products now, but I do dream and lust over them quite often.
08/26/2011
I've got a BonBon, and it's completely lovely. I still orgasm more easily on my back, but riding can be so much fun! The BonBon holds my dildos in such a way that they smack right into my G-spot every time, which some of them don't quite manage on my back. It's more tiring, but often more intense.
08/27/2011
I want one, too. I've taken to wadding up a body pillow and riding that, but it's kind of awkward (it's filled with tiny foam balls to be more comfortable...meaning it doesn't like being wadded up.) Or I've tried stacking thick books and laying a towel over them, but the books have a tendency to slip. I kind of want to try all three of the toy mounts, but the Bonbon's more in my price range...and pretty easily passed off as a normal pillow.
08/28/2011
I have hard time cumming on top because I can't sustain movement during orgasm which throws me off. I suppose the BonBon would help fix that but I'm pretty lazy and all so it's not all that high on my wish list. It's not really on it at all. My husband would probably appreciate me getting one.
10/21/2011
I'm so not in love with my BonBon, I can't even tell you. I'm short and don't weigh a lot so when I ride a toy while using it, the damn thing flops all over the bed. I finally had to have my husband hold it in place to get anywhere with it. And since I just mutilated my Goodfella by cutting off the base, I'm on the hunt for a new toy to use with it. And the Goodfella slid around like crazy inside the suede cover. Meh. It's also really, really tall and asks a lot of my hips and thighs.
10/21/2011
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Wow, I'm glad I read this. Thanks, Stormy!
Originally posted by
Stormy
I'm so not in love with my BonBon, I can't even tell you. I'm short and don't weigh a lot so when I ride a toy while using it, the damn thing flops all over the bed. I finally had to have my husband hold it in place to get anywhere
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I'm so not in love with my BonBon, I can't even tell you. I'm short and don't weigh a lot so when I ride a toy while using it, the damn thing flops all over the bed. I finally had to have my husband hold it in place to get anywhere with it. And since I just mutilated my Goodfella by cutting off the base, I'm on the hunt for a new toy to use with it. And the Goodfella slid around like crazy inside the suede cover. Meh. It's also really, really tall and asks a lot of my hips and thighs.
10/30/2011
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You're welcome! I plan on doing a review for it, just haven't gotten around to it yet. Well, I started and realized there were other things that needed to be included but I'm having a hard time pulling it out of the closet. My husband made something that I like a lot more than the BonBon.
Originally posted by
Antipova
Wow, I'm glad I read this. Thanks, Stormy!
10/30/2011
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Out of curiosity, how tall/heavy are you? - if you don't mind my asking, of course. I'm only about 5' tall and weigh roughly 150lbs. (not so light, but whatever), but I love my BonBon.
Originally posted by
Stormy
You're welcome! I plan on doing a review for it, just haven't gotten around to it yet. Well, I started and realized there were other things that needed to be included but I'm having a hard time pulling it out of the closet. My husband
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You're welcome! I plan on doing a review for it, just haven't gotten around to it yet. Well, I started and realized there were other things that needed to be included but I'm having a hard time pulling it out of the closet. My husband made something that I like a lot more than the BonBon.
10/31/2011
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Same height, difference in weight though. It'll be murder on your thighs and hips at our height. The best way I can describe it is: it's like trying to land your knees in invisible holsters while trying to land in your saddle after a high jump during an equestrian competition. Painful and unnatural.
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
Out of curiosity, how tall/heavy are you? - if you don't mind my asking, of course. I'm only about 5' tall and weigh roughly 150lbs. (not so light, but whatever), but I love my BonBon.
10/31/2011
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I think we might be using it differently. I generally don't go straight up and down. I either grind while resting most of my weight right on top of the BonBon so my knees don't feel any strain, or I lean slightly forward and balance on my hands and knees to manipulate the toy of the day in and out more horizontally.
Originally posted by
Stormy
Same height, difference in weight though. It'll be murder on your thighs and hips at our height. The best way I can describe it is: it's like trying to land your knees in invisible holsters while trying to land in your saddle after a high
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Same height, difference in weight though. It'll be murder on your thighs and hips at our height. The best way I can describe it is: it's like trying to land your knees in invisible holsters while trying to land in your saddle after a high jump during an equestrian competition. Painful and unnatural.
10/31/2011
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I don't grind, I ride. Still, I've tried a variety of different things and my biggest complaint is how tall it is. It was purchased for the intent to ride a toy and fellate my partner...and that's just not possible without a lot of strain on my neck, back, and hips.
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
I think we might be using it differently. I generally don't go straight up and down. I either grind while resting most of my weight right on top of the BonBon so my knees don't feel any strain, or I lean slightly forward and balance on my
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I think we might be using it differently. I generally don't go straight up and down. I either grind while resting most of my weight right on top of the BonBon so my knees don't feel any strain, or I lean slightly forward and balance on my hands and knees to manipulate the toy of the day in and out more horizontally.
10/31/2011
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Tell us more! Was it hard to make? Were the materials expensive, hard to find, or cheap and easy? I think want this or the Wing and I'm curious about any alternatives others have found. Even if the quality isn't as good it would be good to experiment be for investing in the more expensive products.
Originally posted by
Stormy
You're welcome! I plan on doing a review for it, just haven't gotten around to it yet. Well, I started and realized there were other things that needed to be included but I'm having a hard time pulling it out of the closet. My husband
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You're welcome! I plan on doing a review for it, just haven't gotten around to it yet. Well, I started and realized there were other things that needed to be included but I'm having a hard time pulling it out of the closet. My husband made something that I like a lot more than the BonBon.
11/24/2011
I want a Bonbon (or other ridable shape) for the exact same reason as you. Being on top is way too much of a workout for me, I'm never able to focus enough on pleasure because I'm too busy keeping the pace and trying to forget that my legs hurt. I'd love to get some practice in but similarly am not sure if I'd actually use the Bonbon enough to improve at all.
12/02/2011
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So my eventual solution to this: I got a thigh harness. (Outlaw's Fix, to be specific, that's just a link to the product page but you can check my review.) You can see it strapped onto a bolster pillow to form a makeshift Bonbon in the video. (Spoiler, I don't practice my stamina as much as I wanted to ) BUT it has lots of other uses, both solo and partner, and it's a heck of a lot easier to store.
Originally posted by
toxie m
I want a Bonbon (or other ridable shape) for the exact same reason as you. Being on top is way too much of a workout for me, I'm never able to focus enough on pleasure because I'm too busy keeping the pace and trying to forget that my legs
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I want a Bonbon (or other ridable shape) for the exact same reason as you. Being on top is way too much of a workout for me, I'm never able to focus enough on pleasure because I'm too busy keeping the pace and trying to forget that my legs hurt. I'd love to get some practice in but similarly am not sure if I'd actually use the Bonbon enough to improve at all.
12/02/2011
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You are a genius! I just added it to my wishlist! Thanks for the awesome suggestion!
Originally posted by
Antipova
So my eventual solution to this: I got a thigh harness. (Outlaw's Fix, to be specific, that's just a link to the product page but you can check my review.) You can see it strapped onto a bolster pillow to form a makeshift Bonbon in the video.
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So my eventual solution to this: I got a thigh harness. (Outlaw's Fix, to be specific, that's just a link to the product page but you can check my review.) You can see it strapped onto a bolster pillow to form a makeshift Bonbon in the video. (Spoiler, I don't practice my stamina as much as I wanted to ) BUT it has lots of other uses, both solo and partner, and it's a heck of a lot easier to store.
12/03/2011
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I'm no good at getting myself off, usually my husband helps me out though if i had something i could actually ride on, it might be easier for me, so i'm all for the bon bon!
Originally posted by
Antipova
Usually I masturbate on my back, but I've been thinking of getting a Liberator Bonbon in order to strengthen my 'girl on top' muscles and stamina. I got to thinking---how many people who use the Bonbon got it because they orgasm more
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Usually I masturbate on my back, but I've been thinking of getting a Liberator Bonbon in order to strengthen my 'girl on top' muscles and stamina. I got to thinking---how many people who use the Bonbon got it because they orgasm more easily when they're riding? And how many people are more following my motivation? Do the people like me actually use their Bonbons, or are they like those well-intentioned rowing machines or treadmills folded up in your hall closet?
12/06/2011
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