You have no toys at all?
I think in everyone's bedroom kit you need a bdsm kit like this: link
Other well liked products to try are the amethyst glass dildo
for g spot play and the hitachi magic wand
There's tons of other toys to play around with, strap-ons, dildos, g spot vibrators but the ones I listed are fairly universally liked and should be great for someone trying it out. Let us know how it works out!