Recently I've really just had the urge to purchase a toy. I know it sounds weird in a way, but I just want to. I have several, all of which were purchased via a company that a friend works for and I feel kind of bad for mentioning it just because I feel like it's overpriced and overrated. With this being said I have been browsing through the toys heavily. I'm used to clitoral stimulation because I'm a virgin and I'm really afraid to use anything that I have to actually insert. It sounds dumb. Also I'm afraid if I do that it will be awkward when I go to actually have sex. I wouldn't mind trying g-spot stimulation, but again I'm a virgin so I don't know if I'd ever actually succeed at that (although I have a few toys for this I have never used them). Anyways. Is there a toy that anyone thinks would be best for me? Thanks!
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12/25/2010
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I'd honestly recommend a vibrator intended for insertion/g-spot pleasure. For that, I'd probably recommend the LELO Gigi if you are looking for a high-quality option. It's nice and easy to insert if you decide that you'd like to try insertion (and has a nice head for g-spot play that a lot of women have really enjoyed), but it also vibrates pretty well to allow you to just play with it clitorally. That way you know it's able to be inserted if you ever want to try, but you don't have to feel rushed just because you purchased it.
You don't sound dumb though. It's a really new experience, and there's some things you've never experienced in it. For me, penetration was pretty painful/uncomfortable up until I had intercourse for the first time. After intercourse, it's gotten a lot better. You might have better luck than I did since I think I'm the exception when it comes to that. I wouldn't say that it's going to be awkward (at all) when you go to have sex if you've used a toy though. It doesn't permanantly stretch you or anything. In fact, I'd probably recommend it. The only thing you'd really do is break your hymen (if you have one) which would make your first time having sex more pleasurable. The guy/girl won't know anything about you having used a toy, so don't worry.
As for g-spot stimulation, don't worry if you don't succeed at first. It's a bit of a learned/experimental talent. It will probably take you quite a few tries to learn how to hit your g-spot, and that's perfectly normal.
Feel free to message me if you want more direct advice.
You don't sound dumb though. It's a really new experience, and there's some things you've never experienced in it. For me, penetration was pretty painful/uncomfortable up until I had intercourse for the first time. After intercourse, it's gotten a lot better. You might have better luck than I did since I think I'm the exception when it comes to that. I wouldn't say that it's going to be awkward (at all) when you go to have sex if you've used a toy though. It doesn't permanantly stretch you or anything. In fact, I'd probably recommend it. The only thing you'd really do is break your hymen (if you have one) which would make your first time having sex more pleasurable. The guy/girl won't know anything about you having used a toy, so don't worry.
As for g-spot stimulation, don't worry if you don't succeed at first. It's a bit of a learned/experimental talent. It will probably take you quite a few tries to learn how to hit your g-spot, and that's perfectly normal.
Feel free to message me if you want more direct advice.
12/26/2010
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