Buying vibrators for friends: yes or no?

Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
I've talked about toys with them but have not purchased one as a gift.
07/28/2013
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
Depends which friends.
07/29/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
I've never bought one for a friend.. just for me and my girlfriend.
07/30/2013
Contributor: xdarkdreamerx xdarkdreamerx
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Originally posted by lillmiss5054
Yes, I bought a high end rabbit vibe for my best friend, she was going through a divorce. Her ex found it after only two uses, he pitched it. I filed a claim against him in small claim court for "one purple vibrator", after all the snickers ... more
That is so great! What a jerk, I hope he was thoroughly embarrassed in court. A good rabbit is expensive. I'm glad he had to pay for it.
08/03/2013
Contributor: xdarkdreamerx xdarkdreamerx
I took my best friend to a local adult store to purchase her first vibrator. She had told me she didn't have any toys at all and I about fell off my chair and we immediately went that night to go look.
I loved watching her reaction as we looked at different toys and features. She had a great time making fun of me when she had one of the employees go over toys that are for those with "clits of steel" and the employees brought out the super wands. LOL.
I'm not sure if I would ever buy her a vibrator unless it was like a really cute shape that would be more of a gag gift.
08/03/2013
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
it all depends on how open the friend is about sex and masturbation with you. I bought one for my friend as a going off to college present and she loved it.
08/06/2013
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I bought a vibrator for one of my closest friends, but she mentioned first that she wanted it and I sent her a few links to make sure.
08/11/2013
Contributor: peppermintgal peppermintgal
I buy them for myself, but my friends no.
08/12/2013
Contributor: Ava Ava
Im just too shy to do such a thing I guess. and if someone were to give me one, I would probably turn red in the face. (although I would be thankful and happy to try it) its just not something Im comfortable being open about.
08/19/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
I do have a friend that buys them for me, but I don't know of anybody I would buy one for right now.
08/19/2013
Contributor: pirata pirata
I have a best friend who refuses to see the awesome in sex toys and also has some pre-sex anxiety, so I have been very definitely contemplating buying her one
09/03/2013
Contributor: emilymileena emilymileena
Many of my friends and I are pretty intimate with each other. I generally could pick out simple things that they would like, but wouldn't pick out anything too extravagant. However, I'm not all that rich, so I'd rather spend money on me.
09/04/2013
Contributor: cmm cmm
Quote:
Originally posted by lslsls92
I was just curious how many of you here would buy (or have bought) a vibrator or other sex toy for a friend? I know I've had friends who have done it in the past and they've been well received.
Me and my partner only!
09/04/2013
Contributor: Michelleabc Michelleabc
It really depends on the friend for me, like I wouldn't buy sex toys for my work buddies you know? But for the most part, yeah I would buy one for a friend.
09/05/2013
Contributor: Pastafariette Pastafariette
My best friend found one she liked, but can't afford it, so I'm going to buy it for her.
09/06/2013
Contributor: G&L G&L
Not something I'm comfortable with.
09/07/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by Pumpk1nPatch
Depends on the friend. I've never gone out of my way to buy anyone anything, but I have given a friend some free things I've gotten, like that mystery gift rabbit.
I have done the same
09/07/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My case is not included in your options. My wife does not buy toys - so I buy all of her toys.
that much me fun for you
09/07/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by sXeVegan90
I've only bought sex toys for myself.
I love buying toys for my self for a long time
09/07/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by Nezzie13
I've only bought sex toys for myself so far, but I've considered buying my partner toys. He's not quite comfortable with the idea yet, but I have several items picked out for once he gets on board.
I agree
09/07/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by snowminx
I wouldn't, they can buy their own. Only bought toys for myself and my partner.
agreed
09/07/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by Hallmar82
Unless it were for a wedding as a gag gift, I don't think so.
I love give sex gag gifts
09/07/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
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Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
I have a friend who mentioned to me that she was on the lookout for a high quality vibrator. An upgrade, if you will. In those cases, I would be fine buying one as a gift. However, for any friend that hasn't opened up to me in that way, ... more
that is a good thing
09/07/2013
Contributor: Qozt Qozt
I might consider it, but I've only bought toys for myself so far.
09/21/2013
Contributor: caipirinha caipirinha
I will only go shopping with friends I'm very close with or with my boyfriend, but I only buy toys for myself. I don't think I would feel comfortable choosing something for a friend unless they explicitly told me what they wanted.
09/29/2013
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I would, if we were really close
10/01/2013
Contributor: NekoMama NekoMama
Quote:
Originally posted by lslsls92
I was just curious how many of you here would buy (or have bought) a vibrator or other sex toy for a friend? I know I've had friends who have done it in the past and they've been well received.
I know some of my friends wouldn't mind, but others would instantly feel uncomfortable. Truth be told, I wouldn't know what to get some of them, anyway!!!
10/04/2013
Contributor: Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
I totally would and have. Not for all of my friends, but the ones I know appreciate it get special gifts like this from time to time.
10/04/2013
Contributor: GreenKo GreenKo
sex toys for my wife
10/13/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I sure have!
10/13/2013