I've been getting mixed information from various reviews that I find confusing. I am interested in the Lyla exclusively as a toy for discreet public use, but the vibrations of the wireless remote control would seem counterproductive to that purpose. In fact, it would seem quite inconvenient for a number of different reasons and I can't quite understand what purpose it serves at all and why LELO decided this would a useful function? Anyways, back to my question -- Can the remote be programed to NOT vibrate along with the egg?? Is there any sufficient way of turning this function off and just using the remote without it's vibrations? Thanks for any help you can offer!