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NellietheRose
Thank you so much for this! I worked on it last night, but it still wouldn't go in without hurting so bad that I felt like crying. >_< If the toy were softer, it would maybe get in, but I'm not sure. I've never really had anything
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Thank you so much for this! I worked on it last night, but it still wouldn't go in without hurting so bad that I felt like crying. >_< If the toy were softer, it would maybe get in, but I'm not sure. I've never really had anything thicker than 1 inch in diameter inside me, so it's difficult for me.
Do you know how long I would sit like that? The toy can't really stand on its own, so I'd have to hold it and thrust too.
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No prob
I don't think 1.5 is really all that big and you should definitely be able to get it in eventually, but how long it's going to take is really up to you. I don't have that particular toy, but you might want to try turning it sideways to see if it fits better. Like I said, sitting really isn't a good position to insert, but you can keep steady pressure on it for a long time. When you feel relaxed, just wiggle it around and apply a little more, then relax for a couple of minutes. If it hurts, you're probably trying too hard. The vagina is very elastic, but it's also very muscular, and I'm guessing that if it hurts, it's probably because your muscles aren't relaxed, and the pain is what's keeping them from relaxing.
If you can, find something SAFE (no sharp edges, not too big, nothing that could break, something that won't get lost inside) around the house that's a little bit bigger than what you're used to. A hair brush handle, maybe a long candle, etc.. I've had good luck with vegetables - they're really cheap, come in all different sizes, and no one questions it unless you leave it in the bathroom
. You can get a couple different sizes and just throw them out (or eat them) when you're done, but you should definitely cover them. A large carrot or maybe even a really small cucumber might help you along the way. Make sure you don't use anything sharp and if it's not specifically a sex toy, cover it with a condom.
Most importantly, enjoy yourself. If it's too big, don't worry about it. There will always be something that is just too big to fit
. Have fun this time and try to work your way up to it next time.
