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i would say without. it gets in the way
We've never had any problems with toys "getting in the way." Sometimes you have to make allowances, and change the position etc to make the toy fit well. I'm sure My Man has perform cunnilingus a little differently when we use a penetrative vibe. (But, a penetrative vibe or dildo actually makes anal sex easier.) At least I assume
he does. He's never really mentioned it, it makes him hot to play with toys with me. But, it's not different than him using his hand, really. He can go down and use a vibrator at the same time. If we are using a wand vibrator or a Wahl, we've worked out positions where it works best. Either him behind me, maybe penetrating, or using his hand or a dil, or I'm lying on my back and he he has his hand either in or holding the penetrative dil or vibe, while I hold the massager in place, with my arm around his neck and his head on my breast.
It's fun to think up ways to make these things work. We've had sex with as many as 6 or 7 toys at one time. He gets really horny and can't wait when an order comes from Edenfantasys, "Let's use them all
." and it's a lot of fun.
Not only does it add to the pleasure at times, but it forces you to think of new ways to make love.
And sometimes, it's just plain "skin only" sex. It depends on what we're in the mood for.