do you prefer to use your vibrator with or without your partner?

paralax paralax
Venus butterfly II
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some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
09/08/2010
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SoSexi SoSexi
Sometimes I really enjoy it by myself but 97% of the time I like to use it with my partner
09/10/2010
buzzvibe buzzvibe
It depends on the vibe. Some are great for using with a partner, others aren't. I don't have the Venus Butterfly pictured above, but that looks like a great one to wear for some extended foreplay. Hand the remote over and let your partner tease you.
09/10/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
It really depends, I like both situations though.
09/10/2010
clp clp
My Fairy Wand Mini is for me only; it is very powerful and bulky. It can get me to orgasm straight away, so the amount of time is completely up to me. It would be awkward to use during sex, though, as it becomes hot quickly and can get in the way. It's also tethered to the wall, so you can't squirm too far away (limiting positions).

Other vibes, specifically my Jimmy Jane Form 6, is perfect for partner play (in that I don't even use while solo at all). The shape is perfect to 'reach' spots during coupling. It also doesn't have quite enough power to throw me over the edge accidentally, so it is perfect to use in addition to partner stimulation.

(...did I just say 'during coupling'? )
09/10/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by SexyySarah
It really depends, I like both situations though.
+1, I really like to use a clit vibe when we are having sex. But if it is just me then I use it for me
09/10/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
I don't own a Venus Butterfly or any "Panty Vibrator" but we have a lot of other types.

Of course, I use them by myself, but I really prefer when he "Mans" the vibrators. He does things I wouldn't think of, he can get into positions with them I simply wouldn't manage by myself, and some of the surprise of what he's going to do is most of the fun!

With the exception of the Wahl Massager, which we use during couple sex, but I always hold it, because he's doing other things to get me to Come, when we're together, he usually mans the Vibe. Even when I'm giving him head, he has inventive ways of using vibrators on me.
09/10/2010
rumordavis rumordavis
with is way better
09/14/2010
Trashley Trashley
without, unfortunately.

sometimes its more work figuring out which partners won't freak out about it than its worth. aye aye aye i cant wait to grow up!
09/14/2010
twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
I like to use mine without my partner. I just feel like toy time is solo time and I get to completely indulge and enjoy it without leaving him out. However, if he were to suggest using one on me, I wouldn't deny him that
09/14/2010
Envy Envy
Never used one with since I only had sex once, so for now I have to say without.
09/14/2010
bleedingthoughtsofyou bleedingthoughtsofyou
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Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
i would say without. it gets in the way
09/14/2010
tigerkate tigerkate
I am considering bringing the vibrator into partnered sex, and I think my main consideration is the size/shape of the vibrator and how easy it will be to use during intercourse...
So far, though, I've only used it solo.
09/15/2010
Luce Luce
Great Job!!!
12/20/2010
Luce Luce
Depends on my mood actually. For the most part alone but every now and then would love to use it with Him or Her.
12/20/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by bleedingthoughtsofyou
i would say without. it gets in the way
We've never had any problems with toys "getting in the way." Sometimes you have to make allowances, and change the position etc to make the toy fit well. I'm sure My Man has perform cunnilingus a little differently when we use a penetrative vibe. (But, a penetrative vibe or dildo actually makes anal sex easier.) At least I assume he does. He's never really mentioned it, it makes him hot to play with toys with me. But, it's not different than him using his hand, really. He can go down and use a vibrator at the same time. If we are using a wand vibrator or a Wahl, we've worked out positions where it works best. Either him behind me, maybe penetrating, or using his hand or a dil, or I'm lying on my back and he he has his hand either in or holding the penetrative dil or vibe, while I hold the massager in place, with my arm around his neck and his head on my breast.

It's fun to think up ways to make these things work. We've had sex with as many as 6 or 7 toys at one time. He gets really horny and can't wait when an order comes from Edenfantasys, "Let's use them all." and it's a lot of fun.

Not only does it add to the pleasure at times, but it forces you to think of new ways to make love.

And sometimes, it's just plain "skin only" sex. It depends on what we're in the mood for.
12/20/2010
C4ss C4ss
Depends on my mood. Normally I prefer to use it without my partner.
It can be very interesting and pleasurable to use it with him every now and then, though.
12/20/2010
SparklingReviews SparklingReviews
It really depends on the situation but I usually like to use a vibrator solo. My partner does like to engage though and seems to get a little jealous when not included on my play time with my toys.
12/20/2010
AndromedaJane AndromedaJane
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
I'd like to use it with my partner but he isn't interested
01/30/2012
aertie aertie
both ways..
05/01/2012
kuma kuma
this is great for foreplay!
05/07/2012
satinlady550 satinlady550
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Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
I have to have say that 90% of the time I like having my partner share the experience with me... Although I love exploring my body when he isn't around to enjoy the pleasure with me...
06/11/2012
satinlady550 satinlady550
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
I have to have say that 90% of the time I like having my partner share the experience with me... Although I love exploring my body when he isn't around to enjoy the pleasure with me...
06/11/2012
nankabd nankabd
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Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
I definitely like it for solo play. He has too many good bits to play with for a toy to be fun.
07/09/2012
hall5885 hall5885
I prefer both. Well, I guess on second thought with partner.
07/09/2012
satinlady550 satinlady550
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Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
It is best if used with your partner.. Both parties get to enjoy the pleasures this butterfly has to offer.
07/31/2012
rmd rmd
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
I'm in a long distance relationship, so unfortunatly I have to use mine alone. Even if i wasn't usually alone, I like to use my vibrator for special "me" time. I don't have to worry about anyone else but me and my batteries! However, I do like to use it with my partner too. He loves teasing me with the remote operated toys!
08/22/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
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Originally posted by paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
I am looking to use it with
09/29/2012
caseyb caseyb
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Originally posted by SoSexi
Sometimes I really enjoy it by myself but 97% of the time I like to use it with my partner
this toy looks like (the Venus Butterfly II) a fancy cock-ring is all. They give em away for free here on the site, they cant be worth 3$ definitely not the 20 something they are trying to charge for it. Not cool.
10/04/2012
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