Does your partner ever get jealous of your toy collection?

Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
he does
09/17/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Not my toys but thinks I am gonna wear my outfits for someone else
11/10/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSexista
A close friend of mine bought her 1st set toy a few weeks ago and her hubby is jealous of it. He says things like " do you like to fuck him more than me" or " I guess yu don't need me anymore".

So, I am wondering how ... more
Never. She knows a sex toy can't cuddle me, wipe away my tears, make awesome breakfasts/lunches/din ners, soak with me in the tub...

Should I go on?
11/10/2012
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
guys think they're getting replaced
11/10/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
Nope. My boyfriend loves to hear about my toy adventures and will even happily use them with/on me.
11/10/2012
Contributor: Okamicat69 Okamicat69
As a guy I convinced my GF to get one. We are born with a free one(hand) so its only fair.
11/10/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSexista
A close friend of mine bought her 1st set toy a few weeks ago and her hubby is jealous of it. He says things like " do you like to fuck him more than me" or " I guess yu don't need me anymore".

So, I am wondering how ... more
Toys have never been a problem in my relationship, they actually add spice
11/10/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
nah, we both like 'em
11/10/2012
Contributor: SepZet SepZet
Oh yeah...though I know the toys definately help.
11/10/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
nope we both love them!
11/10/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSexista
A close friend of mine bought her 1st set toy a few weeks ago and her hubby is jealous of it. He says things like " do you like to fuck him more than me" or " I guess yu don't need me anymore".

So, I am wondering how ... more
No, he loves them!
11/12/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Nope--I'm with a man who is totally secure about his manhood, his ability to please me, and our sex life together. He's just as enthusiastic about adding to the bedroom and experimenting with different toys and sensations, and he's thrilled that I'm so willing to be adventurous and try new things. He doesn't compare himself to pieces of silicone and plastic, because he's confident (and correct) in how irreplaceable he is.

I think some men find female sexuality baffling and pleasuring a woman as a daunting challenge. I think they wrongly compare a woman's sexual response to their own, and when she can't get turned on as quickly or as easily, or it takes more to get her off, he takes it as a comment on his abilities as a lover, and it hurts his ego. So when a woman gets a toy, he immaturely assumes that it means that he's not satisfying her, or he can't compete. He assumes his cock should be enough, even though some women (most women) need more than just the old in and out to get off.

Now, if these men did just a little research and opened up communication with their women, they'd know that they can learn to be more attentive and better lovers, but that doesn't mean she won't want a vibrator. Hell, some women NEED the intense, pinpoint vibrations of a vibrator to get off, and it has nothing to do with him. It's just the way her body is. Nothing wrong with it at all. Men who have partners like that would probably find that adding toys into the mix will make them BETTER lovers by being sympathetic and understanding of her needs and desires, which makes him better able to satisfy her. Vibrators and dildos are not replacements for people. Insecurity is not attractive, and nothing screams "I'm insecure!" more than moping over your girlfriend's vibrator. I get that the female body and sexual response can seem enigmatic and it can be intimidating to try to satisfy a woman sexually. But rise to the challenge! Learn with her. Find out what feels good to her by experimenting and playing around. Look into different sex positions, cunnilingus techniques, g-spot exploration, role play, dirty talk, and yes, toys! Make the quest for your partner's ultimate sexual satisfaction a fun game and play it with her. And let the woman have the damn vibrator. She's going to play with it on her own sometimes too, because hey, we like to masturbate also! Encourage it--the more she knows about what she likes and what feels good to her, the more she'll be able to help you out, and the less inhibited she'll be.

Grr. Dudes. Get over the fear of vibrators. On behalf of cock loving ladies everywhere, trust me, there's room enough in our lives for your manhood, and our toys. Stop competing with toys...in the end, it's just silly and kind of sad.
11/12/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSexista
A close friend of mine bought her 1st set toy a few weeks ago and her hubby is jealous of it. He says things like " do you like to fuck him more than me" or " I guess yu don't need me anymore".

So, I am wondering how ... more
my husband loves buying me toys, and seeing me use them. not concerns like this in our love life
11/18/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
No we shop together most of the time and he enjoys using them with me.
11/18/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
My current partner loves the fact that I use toys I often send him a "wishlist" of what I want to let him choose my next purchase. I have been going through a dry spell of buying toys and lingerie which upset him a little because he is always wanting to hear about my new toy. When we are together he loves using them on me while he takes a "break" from sex.

I have been in relationships where they were jealous over a BASIC vibe from Spencer's *shrugs* oh well I have someone who loves me using them and having them.
11/18/2012
Contributor: ska ska
No Way- My partner loves toys as much as I do
11/18/2012
Contributor: allme1 allme1
Sometimes- When I spend to much time with them
11/18/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
My boyfriend and I share our toys, because a lot of them are for us to use together.
11/18/2012
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
We use them together and pick them out together. My husband is not jealous. He doesn't have any reason to be. We have amazing sex with or without toys. It's just different. We like to keep things interesting and not routine.
11/18/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Nope
11/18/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSexista
A close friend of mine bought her 1st set toy a few weeks ago and her hubby is jealous of it. He says things like " do you like to fuck him more than me" or " I guess yu don't need me anymore".

So, I am wondering how ... more
No Way- My partner loves toys as much as I do
11/18/2012
Contributor: angel42539 angel42539
we both have our toys lol
11/18/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
he finds it a turn on that Im kinky enough to have this many!
12/04/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
He's happy as long as I'm getting my rocks off
12/04/2012