Feeldoe dildos are generally considered harness-free strap-ons, but you have to have strong vaginal muscles to keep with bulb end inside the vagina and it's really a matter of how tight you can squeeze around the bulb.If your muscles are not strong enough we recommend to use a harness to hold it in place.
You don't *need* a harness with any of the double ended dildos, as they are designed to be kept in place by the wearer's kegel muscles. However, if you would like it to be more secure, or you are going to be very rough with it, Outlaw Leather makes all their harness with two holes, do it'll fit in perfectly. I have the Syd, and love it
I think it can depend a lot on how you are going to be using it. If you want to hold the bulb end anally, then you will probably be able to hold it pretty well because most people have those muscles pretty well trained. If it is vagina-vagina play, then you probably have a 50-50 shot. If you wanted to hold it in your vagina while you penetrated some one anally, you will probably have a difficult time holding it.
We definitely use a harness with the Feeldoe. We've used it without a harness before but it tends to only stay in well in certain positions, at least for us. Either way it's still a toy we love greatly.
My boyfriend and I have a Feeldoe, and it's probably our favorite toy! This fact is in spite of the fact that, using it on him turns me on so much that I just get too wet to hold it in properly. It's not that my Kegel muscles are weak. I just, you could say in the right conditions I'm a "squirter," and with G-spot stimulation I just get too slippery. We are in the process of selecting and buying some rope so I can make myself a harness (I am somewhat of a shibari fan, which is Japanese rope knots and bondage) so if you like that way that looks and feels, you can use that, too. No matter how you do it, enjoy yourself and don't get to frustrated!
It seems like you'd have to have herculean kegels to use a Feeldoe without a harness.
Many strapless strapons need strong PC muscles to use a harness with, especially for anal penetration. Sometimes there are some positions that work better than others, for instance most people have problems with a position such as doggie where the woman is upright, but there's more success with missionary where the dildo isn't being pulled out by gravity.
Doubles are fun even with a harness, so that's no reason not to look into them.
I have the "share" by fun factory, I'm curious, how insertable length compares between the two once the wearer has inserted their end. Also I'm curious as to how they compare weight wise. The "share" is fairly heavy.
It's almost impossible to have any type of rough sex without a harness especially if you have one of the larger ones. I've been able to maneuver others without an issue but the Feeldoe is heavy and semi-awkward.
how come there isn't a feel buck? it'd be better to fuck with