Feeldoe

You don't *need* a harness with any of the double ended dildos, as they are designed to be kept in place by the wearer's kegel muscles. However, if you would like it to be more secure, or you are going to be very rough with it, Outlaw Leather makes all their harness with two holes, do it'll fit in perfectly. I have the Syd, and love it

I own the Feeldoe and if i'm using it for partner sex I have to do so with a harness...I can't just hold it in myself.

I think it can depend a lot on how you are going to be using it. If you want to hold the bulb end anally, then you will probably be able to hold it pretty well because most people have those muscles pretty well trained. If it is vagina-vagina play, then you probably have a 50-50 shot. If you wanted to hold it in your vagina while you penetrated some one anally, you will probably have a difficult time holding it.

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That's the Feeldoe site, its kinda cute. I have the Feeldoe More, and its kinda heavy, I use a harness.

The blue feeldoe and the purple one I can go harness free.

The Feeldoe folks are working on a new Feeldoe called the Realdoe. It will have testicles. I think they should call the Doe-nuts, but opinions are like assholes, right?

Personally I like to at least keeping a harness nearby. I have a difficult time holding onto the feeldoe when things get really hot. It's nice to have the harness there as a back up, just in case.

We definitely use a harness with the Feeldoe. We've used it without a harness before but it tends to only stay in well in certain positions, at least for us. Either way it's still a toy we love greatly.

My boyfriend and I have a Feeldoe, and it's probably our favorite toy! This fact is in spite of the fact that, using it on him turns me on so much that I just get too wet to hold it in properly. It's not that my Kegel muscles are weak. I just, you could say in the right conditions I'm a "squirter," and with G-spot stimulation I just get too slippery. We are in the process of selecting and buying some rope so I can make myself a harness (I am somewhat of a shibari fan, which is Japanese rope knots and bondage) so if you like that way that looks and feels, you can use that, too. No matter how you do it, enjoy yourself and don't get to frustrated!

It seems like you'd have to have herculean kegels to use a Feeldoe without a harness.

I have the "share" by fun factory, I'm curious, how insertable length compares between the two once the wearer has inserted their end. Also I'm curious as to how they compare weight wise. The "share" is fairly heavy.

Doesn't look like it.

I think it's sexier without a harness, but it can be tricky sometimes to get it to stay inside of you. You've really got to have strong muscles or not be too rough.

we need a harness, the Jaguar by aslan