Finding the G

Contributor: lizm lizm
I am curious about the g-spot that I'm told I have but at 46 years of age, I haven't found it and neither have any of my partners. I am tempted to purchase a g-spot vibrator but don't know where to begin. I'm sure there are posts about it, I've looked at g-spot vibrators and am considering purchasing one just so I can find this elusive creature, but I would love to hear opinions and thoughts. Where the heck is this g-spot located and what should I look at when trying to find the toy that's perfect to help me find it?
04/10/2015
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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by lizm
I am curious about the g-spot that I'm told I have but at 46 years of age, I haven't found it and neither have any of my partners. I am tempted to purchase a g-spot vibrator but don't know where to begin. I'm sure there are posts ... more
It's real and I personally suggest you find it with your, or a lovers finger, then you can choose a toy whose texture and size will most meet your needs at stimulating that spot. If you try yourself, put your well lubed index finger inside yourself, and you will find a "patch" of tissue, slightly more firm, and textured, then the tissue around it (feels like the surface of a walnut, only squishy and soft). It is on the FRONT side of your vaginal tunnel (on the belly side) not the back side, and it may be from an inch inside, to the most common middle depth in the vaginal canal. In a few woman, from what I have heard, it may even be higher up in the vaginal vault. Once you have found it, try having you or a lover gently stroke or rub it, till you cum. Once you know how deep in it is for you, you can choose toys accordingly.
04/10/2015
Contributor: lizm lizm
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Originally posted by Bignuf
It's real and I personally suggest you find it with your, or a lovers finger, then you can choose a toy whose texture and size will most meet your needs at stimulating that spot. If you try yourself, put your well lubed index finger inside ... more
Excellent info. Thanks so much!
04/10/2015
Contributor: christina sanchez christina sanchez
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Originally posted by Bignuf
It's real and I personally suggest you find it with your, or a lovers finger, then you can choose a toy whose texture and size will most meet your needs at stimulating that spot. If you try yourself, put your well lubed index finger inside ... more
HI bignuf!

nice to meet you!

If that is ok, can i ask you something about the g-spot topic?
ok, wife and mom of four. 28 years old and four repeated c-sections, all in 05' 06' 08' and 09'. now when i look for an orgasm its rubbing along the clitoris. now i also heard the g-spot sensation like your describing. but see when i tryed exploring on my own, with finger or toy it hurts. i mean i feel discomfort with insert. i went to obgyn, everything is ok as far as the plumbing. no std's or such. i always get tested even married faithfully for 13 years. but yea, when i try to find this g-spot sensation, anything inserted like makes pressure where i either have to urinate or literally im going to vomit. is this maybe due to repeated c-sections? or is it possible to not have a g-spot? I always since first encountered with masturbation have always played with the clit area. Sorry if i came off weird or a stupid question. Thanks so much and have a great night!

christina!
04/14/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by christina sanchez
HI bignuf!

nice to meet you!

If that is ok, can i ask you something about the g-spot topic?
ok, wife and mom of four. 28 years old and four repeated c-sections, all in 05' 06' 08' and 09'. now when i look for an ... more
Hey, Hot Mami!

I am in no way a professional but your story moved me enough to do a little online research. I found an email between a c-section mother and an adhesion organization that I found fascinating. This may have no baring on what you are dealing with but it could be worth checking in to link

I don't know if there 7 much that can be done (if this is the case) unless you are willing to Pinder a procedure. I just hope and pray one day you find yourself pain free and reaching beautiful orgasms

Take care!
04/14/2015
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I'm looking to become more familiar with my G-Spot as well. Mine makes me feel like I have to go to the bathroom though.
04/20/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I'm looking to become more familiar with my G-Spot as well. Mine makes me feel like I have to go to the bathroom though.
The connection between the g-spot and the urge to pee is easy to explain.

Another term for the g-spot is urethral sponge. It's a sleeve of erectile tissue that the urethra passes through. So when you press on the g-spot, you are pressing on the urethra.

That's why for many it takes some getting use to. Eventually your brain learns that specific sensation - and stops sending you the signal that you have to pee.

BTW - Since I don't own one - this info is from a combination of research and the descriptions my wife has given me.
05/04/2015