G-spot toys for a beginner like me

chibi1091 chibi1091
Any suggestions on toys for G-spot beginners?
01/07/2012
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Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
If you're looking for a G-spot vibrator, I haven't really tried too many, but I can recommend some dildos. The Ella or the Bent Graduate both work great. They're good G-spotters that can be turned around for normal thrusting, with some key differences:

The Ella is lightweight and 100% silicone, with a broad G-spot end, flexible neck, and untextured shaft. It's a little easier to maneuver, but produces a lot of drag, so lube is a must.

The Bent Graduate is somewhat heavier, being made of glass. The G-spot end is more pinpoint, while the thrusting end has a "bulbed" texture, so the sensations on both ends are more intense (which may be good or bad, depending on your preferences). It's smooth and less draggy, but because it's heavier and firmer you need to be a bit more careful, since being too rough with glass can cause bruises.

If you're not sure what you'd prefer, I'd say go with the Ella, just to be safe.
01/07/2012
RonLee RonLee
To use an education analogy, rather than starting out with G-Spot 101, I'd recommend going straight to grad school G-Spot 551.
With my ex spouse (ex because I'm a widower, cancer took her) anal intercourse presented exactly the right angles of penetration to stimulate her G-Spot enough for her to enjoy female ejaculation. As such that's what I would recommend. One of the larger male prostate simulators like the Nexus gyro or my favorite Nexus Gyro Xtreme. If you are anally experienced you might even try the Tantus General but only if you are experienced enough to be able to handle a two inch diameter dildo. Happy Trails!
01/07/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by RonLee
To use an education analogy, rather than starting out with G-Spot 101, I'd recommend going straight to grad school G-Spot 551.
With my ex spouse (ex because I'm a widower, cancer took her) anal intercourse presented exactly the right ... More
That's... kind of amazing. I'm only an anal newbie, to be truthful, but even my fairly shallow G-spot can't feel anything through the anal wall.

No harm in trying, though, chibi1091, if anal appeals to you. Though if you're just starting out with anal play as well as G-spotting, I'd go for something a lot smaller than the Nexus toys or General until you get used to it.
01/07/2012
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
That's... kind of amazing. I'm only an anal newbie, to be truthful, but even my fairly shallow G-spot can't feel anything through the anal wall.

No harm in trying, though, chibi1091, if anal appeals to you. Though if you're ... More
It's the angles Rin (aka Nire), try anal with you on your back ankles on your partner's shoulders.
Most folks like to say "everything in moderation", I've learned that life is often too damn short for that. As such for a while now, I adhere to the philosophy "if it's worth doing, it's worth doing to excess". In any case, whatever works for you, enjoy!
01/07/2012
Curiouscat Curiouscat
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Originally posted by chibi1091
Any suggestions on toys for G-spot beginners?
Just make sure it's a good material whatever you decide on! Like silicone. Don't go for a jelly or any low quality materials. Can be dangerous, and degrade over time.
Happy hunting.
01/07/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by RonLee
It's the angles Rin (aka Nire), try anal with you on your back ankles on your partner's shoulders.
Most folks like to say "everything in moderation", I've learned that life is often too damn short for that. As such for a ... More
While I have tried anal toys while on my back, I have no partner for supporting my ankles, so that's a no for now anyway. Though I'd disagree with the "excess" part when just starting out with anal - going too big too fast can lead to some bad results, y'know? No sense rushing if it'll provide no benefit. But everyone's different, I suppose, and more power to those who can start out big anyway.
01/07/2012
Curiouscat Curiouscat
G-Ki

Great vibe for g-spot and safe materials. And it's adjustable. If you havent found your g-spot this seems like a good toy to help!
01/07/2012
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
While I have tried anal toys while on my back, I have no partner for supporting my ankles, so that's a no for now anyway. Though I'd disagree with the "excess" part when just starting out with anal - going too big too fast can lead ... More
Without a partner and me being male, I cannot make any suggestions based on my own experience. P-Spot yes G-Spot no.
Oh and yes, I well know that anal, as a receiver, going big initially without proper prep can and DOES hurt. Proper preparation can be done in a few sessions though.
01/07/2012
Antipova Antipova
This thread has a few "find your g-spot" kits, as suggested by reviewers... it's worth a look!
01/07/2012
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Curiouscat
Just make sure it's a good material whatever you decide on! Like silicone. Don't go for a jelly or any low quality materials. Can be dangerous, and degrade over time.
Happy hunting.
Excellent reminder on the material. We had a jelly toy that must have absorbed the soap that we'd used to clean it and next time we used it... Dang did it burn. From then on, only toys made from the best material for the job.
01/07/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by RonLee
Excellent reminder on the material. We had a jelly toy that must have absorbed the soap that we'd used to clean it and next time we used it... Dang did it burn. From then on, only toys made from the best material for the job.
Geeze, jelly can be bad enough on its own, but soap as well? I'm hoping the recovery was quick, if nothing else!
01/07/2012
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
Geeze, jelly can be bad enough on its own, but soap as well? I'm hoping the recovery was quick, if nothing else!
LOL! Thanks, I hoping that others can learn from the mistakes told in these forum posts and not repeat them.
01/07/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
I'm seconding the vote for G-Ki. It's my favorite! I have a super picky G spot and it works well for me.
01/07/2012
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